When two people decide to spend their life together, it is mostly about having the perfect wedding with the most beautiful dress, the perfect venue, great music and food. People tend to ignore what comes next which is the married first year. An official relationship and marriage itself come with a number of different challenges, and the most difficult yet beautiful one of them is the married first year.
It is very important that both the husband and the wife decide to stick together through the good times and bad. They need that urge, the love and the desire to be together for good as that would be the driving force for a happy, successful marriage.
We have concluded some tips for the married first year, that will help the new couples to know what to expect actually and how to respond to various situations. Let’s find them out!
Make way for a new routine
If you aren’t one of those couples who lived together before getting married it might take you a couple of weeks to get used to each other’s presence and schedules. You are maybe dating your better half for a long time, but when two people start living together, things are slightly different.
It is absolutely normal if your routine is kind of a mess for some time because things will eventually settle in. Adjustments are to be made along with compromises to discover a completely new side of the person you are now married to.
The married first year is hard, especially in this context. When you are single, you earn for your own self so you can spend whenever you want on whatever you want- but not anymore. Now, having a conversation with your significant other is necessary before making any big-ticket purchase.
Finance is the base of most of the arguments between newlyweds. In order to avoid unnecessary drama and chaos, it is better to sit together and discuss properly the monthly expenses including car payments, loans, etc. You can later decide whatever you wish to do with the savings. Either you both can take your share of it and get whatever you wanted or plan a holiday or something.
Communication is important
I cannot stress the importance of communication in the married first year. You both need to take out time regardless of how busy your day was and really talk. Communication can resolve all problems and conflicts and allows you get closer to your partner. It is not only important to talk but also to listen. You both need to open your hearts to each other and speak.
Naturally, both of you will have difficult days whether it is professional or personal life but the fact that your partner will be there to listen will make it better. Trust us when we say this. Moreover, how you are able to handle your arguments and disagreements in the first year of marriage will give an insight into how the rest of your married years will be.
You will fall in love all over again
Don’t be surprised, it’s true. You will fall in love all over again in the married first year but with your significant other only. With every passing day, you will discover something new about your partner; you will learn more about the likes and the dislikes – all of this will constantly remind you why you decided to marry this person who is now your husband or wife. This will make sure that you two love each other for forever. Always remember this.
Every marriage is special on its own
Every couple has some kind of magic, there are certain things that make you different from the others and the married first year is when you discover these things. Try to give your heart and soul even when the sky seems slightly grey because if you really hang in there, the sun will surely shine. Nothing can stop you two from having a happy married life if you both have the urge to make it work. Good luck!