How to Find a Wife Suitable for You

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Updated: 19 Apr, 2023

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Build a partnership, not a purchase by valuing character over looks and material concerns, and commit to forgiveness, sacrifice, and mutual support to deepen your connection.

You always have two options, either you get married and travel with your wife, or you turn into your uncle Bob, who hates weddings and never settles down. If you are the first one and want to get married right away but cannot find a wife then don’t worry, this article will help you out.

Finding yourself the right wife requires a lot of thought; you need to look out for the characteristics you desire in a woman. You need to find someone who understands you, understand your point of view and also has her own opinion. If you are looking for a wife and can’t find her, then keep on reading-

How to find a wife

It is important for guys to keep in mind that marriage is a commitment for a lifetime. You cannot just get married to someone because they look pretty. You want to find a good wife that takes care of your household, is a good mother to your kids and most of all, looks after you.

Here are some questions to ask to find a suitable wife for yourself:

1. Do you have the same interest and beliefs?

If you are searching for a companion, then make sure that you focus on the interest that is common between you two. The woman that you should marry must have the same interests and beliefs as you do; this does not mean that she cannot have her own beliefs, it simply means that she agrees with your beliefs and you with her.

It is important that you agree on big things such as family, children, money, sex, etc. Make sure that you discuss these things beforehand with the girl before marrying her.

2. Does she have a good upbringing?

A woman with good values and a good understanding of what a family should be like will be more likely to turn your house into a home.

If the woman you are marrying is moody, argues over everything and is rude then avoid marrying her. She will make your life miserable and will not be able to properly raise your kids.

3. Is she successful?

A good wife will have successes and achievements before you enter her life. When you decide to marry someone, choose someone who has goals and aspirations in life that are way beyond getting married. Marry someone well educated, someone, who loves to read rather than spend time on Instagram and Snapchat.

4. Is she attractive?

Keep in mind that we are not discussing her looks but we are talking about if she attracts you or not. Are you drawn to her? Does her quirky sense of humor, her smile or her voice make your heart melt?

Your wife does not have to be a bombshell, but there must be something about her that makes your heart yearn.

5. Is she funny?

Married life is not just about kids, career, work, etc. Life after marriage must have some doses of laughter, humor, and fun. Do not marry a girl who is always mad, someone who is angry and most of the time, unenthusiastic about everything.

Avoid marrying a girl who cannot find fun in silly things such as a picnic in the park, someone who doesn’t laugh when you put ice cream on their nose.

Marry someone who is joyous and lively. This way not only will you have fun but your life will feel complete.

6. Is she materialistic?

If the woman you are marrying is very materialistic and is consumed with it and is obsessed with money, then do not marry her. If she plans on spending all your savings on the new Birkin bag and questions you when you buy a pair of $50 shoes, then run away my friend and do not the purpose.

Marriage is without a doubt a very big decision. You cannot just pick someone out of a crowd because they look good and propose them the next month. Marriage is a synonym for compromise, forgiveness, sacrifice, and unconditional love; it makes you want to support your person when things get hard. So, find a life partner who stands with you, understands you, does not take you for granted and loves all that you do. Once you find such a person, don’t worry anymore and get married right away!

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