Is your partner a right or a left brainer? The eyes have it all.
In NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) the non-verbal communication is crucial. In fact, the current medical research approved that more than 80% of our daily communications are hidden within our gestures, small movements, body language, and more.
In relationships, it is critical to understand your partner NLP for you to live a happier and healthier life.
Have you ever felt that no matter how much you invest in your relationship, it does not work the way you want it? Or you asked yourself hundred times why my partner does not get what I am saying? Or perhaps you get more frustrated when you asked your partner to take in charge of the road mapping, but you always get lost?
Is your partner a right brain dominant or left brain dominant?
Because you both have different traits and brains that you need to understand first before you jump on misunderstanding or misconception traps.
Here how it works:
We as a human being have a brain that is divided into two hemispheres: Right and Left. Each one has its own way of functions, behaviors, learning and fears.
So, if you are a right brain dominant you will be more compassionate, lovable, huggable, kissable kind of personality. However, if you are a left-brain dominant you will be more logic, over thinking, detail-oriented personality.
The brain code
On the other side of this theory, there is the eyes movement which we call it in NLP “The Brain Code” V-A-K-O-G (Visual – Auditory – Kinesthetic – Olfactory – Gustatory).
For example, if your partner is a visual person, which is the majority of people, they have to see your love. No matter how much you say it or do it. They need to see it to believe it.
However, the Auditory personality has to hear it “I love you ” otherwise they don’t get it.
Kinesthetic personality, they need you to touch them, be more intimate with them. Of Course, I do not have to tell you who doesn’t love flowers, especially Olfactory people.
Gustatory are the ones concerned with tasting or the sense of taste.
The eyes movement
The eyes movement directions are so many, space here will not be enough to discuss it all. For instance, if the eyes are moving up most of the time to find information, the person usually is Visual. Side to side movement is Auditory. And down word movement is feelings and kinesthetic personality.
The key here is that stay open-minded, and open-hearted. Because you want to live a healthy, and happy relationship this what you need to do.
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