1. Do you have a good time when you're with them?
2. If you had a secret, would you tell them?
3. Do they make you feel good about yourself?
4. Do you have the impression that they like you just the way you are?
5. Do you believe they pay attention to you?
6. Do they frequently abandon you when something or someone better presents itself?
7. Do you enjoy spending time with them on a regular basis?
8. After spending time with them, do you feel re-energized?
9. Are they available when you need them?
10. Do you have a good sense of who they are? (Not just in terms of what they do and like, but also in terms of who they are as a person.)
11. How often do they initiate plans with you?
12. How do they react when you achieve something great?
13. Do they respect your boundaries and personal space?
14. How do they handle conflicts between you two?
15. Do they encourage you to pursue your dreams and goals?