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Why Husbands with a Sex Addiction Need Therapy to Stop Acting Out

Husbands with a Sex Addiction Need Therapy

The wife of a sex addict can often hear the catchphrases “I can stop anytime I want to,” or “I don’t need to go to therapy.” These are just two of the many beliefs husbands might use when they consider stopping their compulsive behavior. If you are struggling with an addiction to pornography or other harmful activities that do not involve your wife, it is time to seek counsel.

 

Sex addiction, just like other dangerous compulsions is hard to break. Similar with other severe addictions, sexual obsession developed for a reason. As with addiction to alcohol or drugs, when you decide to stop you will experience thoughts, impulses, and cravings to return to it. This is a typical experience with sex addicts who are trying to stop the behavior.

 

An answer for this recurrent and compulsive behavior is to seek the help of a qualified sex addiction therapist. A sex addiction specialist will help you to understand the negative behavior you have and learn the tools needed to resist urges when they appear. A therapist will also work with you to develop a support system that you can rely on when you are on the verge of acting out.

 

Many husbands feel that if they enter therapy, it is a sign of weakness. In fact, the opposite is true. In therapy it takes great strength to confront some of the addictive issues that keep you from reclaiming a healthy personal and married lifeAnother feeling that many men and husbands express is that they are private people and do not want to talk to someone they don’t know about their problems. Effective therapy involves many facets of treatment and not just talking about your problems. A substantial therapeutic program means finding solutions and perfecting and practicing them. A positive therapeutic experience will help you find a life free of sexual addiction.

 

With the acceptance of sex addiction therapy and a firm commitment to change, you will stop acting out and begin living life with honesty and integrity. With successful treatment, you will stop risking your marriage and the loss of everything that is dear for a gratuitous negative sexual impulse.

  VERIFIED EXPERT
Duane is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist, and co-founder of NOVUS Mindful Life Institute, which helps individuals affected by sex addiction. His vision is to provide comprehensive care for individuals struggling with process addictions in the utmost confidential, comprehensive and caring environment to ensure clients feel safe and accepted with anticipation that recovery is possible.

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