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Tim Rogers, MA, LMFT, LMFT Verified Marriage & Family Therapist
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Tim Rogers, MA, LMFT, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapistin Encino, CA
Tim Rogers, MA, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist

About

"You are not having relaitonship problems. You are have unreolved childhood problems that are disguised as relationship problems!"
"Therapy must be a priority. Everything else is effective by it." - me
An Optimal Marriage
Entails two adults who, without too many
disruptions, reciprocally share in
admiring one another's
styles of expressiveness
and expansiveness; take comfort in each
other's soothing; have a sufficient mix of
common qualities, interests, and beliefs;
encourage one another's verbalization of
feelings and experiences; reckon with and
tolerate inevitable disappointments; and
utilize their own strong feelings as
signals that indicate something to explore
within themselves, instead of becoming
fixated in blaming their spouse for
their disappointment.
As you continue to gather information for your or someone you love's journey for support, I'd like you to consider something. Something many people may not realize until it happens or it starts to happen for them, and for some, may never happen.
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Therapy can undo your aloneness.Yup. It's true. Working with a psychotherapist, especially with me, doesn’t have to be such a cold or emotionally removed experience. As with ANY relationship, ours must have defined boundaries, clear expectation, and you must feel emotionally safe enough for you to be your true Self.
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Your true Self is established at birth and may not have been encouraged ... enough. throughout your extremely important, sensitive formative years. Instead, you might have felt like it wasn't enough.
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Being forced to abandon your true self due to narcissistic wound of parenting can be a major precursor to emotional (not being permitted to express your Self as a child), physical (when a patent is no longer there due death or divorce or never was there).
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Being forced to abandon your true self due to narcissistic wound of parenting can be a major precursor to emotional (not being permitted to express your Self as a child), physical (when a patent is no longer there due death or divorce or never was there).
YOUR SELF
Or when a sibling is born, or has a need greater than average due to mental, physical or emotional health And if any of that happened between the ages of 0-3 when we develop our actual personality, the disorder of THAT kind of trauma often leads to an alternate developed or falsely developed self.
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Unless through intervention (usually -
because of drug/alcohol or sex or shopping or eating as a way to medicate what is unconsciously understood), that child who was forced to be an adult too early whom everyone praised or being so mature now an adult doesn’t know enough on how to be a grown up.
But it’s the original relationship that was toxic or what was taught was toxic. So they either ignore the personality traits that everyone is noticing but says nothing, or they are in jail or they learn but only the through crisis. So toxic because it’s a relationship problem, a which means a relationship which is not toxic is the treatment!
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An object(ive) NOT an objectifying relationship which is empathic, direct and flexible when they can try to thrive and not be judged. That’s therapy. That’s real and that’s honestly going to actually support you AND hold you accountable ... to your Self!
Tim is also listed in Best Marriage Therapists in Encino

Licensing & Certifications:

  • Licensed
  • License State: California
  • License Number: mfc101500, received 2017
  • M.A, LMFT

Types of Therapy:

  • Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy
  • Anger Management Therapy
  • Attachment-Based Family Therapy
  • Borderline Personality Disorder Therapy
  • Brief Therapy
  • Codependency Therapy
  • Depth Therapy
  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy
  • Dream Analysis
  • Family Therapy

Services Provided Via:

  • In person

Works With:

  • Individual
  • Couples
  • Family
  • Group
  • Young people ages 14-17
  • Men of Color
  • Family members of BPD

Working With Marriages for:

  • 10 Year(s)

Free Phone Consultations?

  • Yes

Hourly Fees Range:

  • $200 - $250

Language(s) Spoken:

  • English

My Articles

What Are the Stages of Abandonment Depression and Key Recovery Steps

Mental Health

What Are the Stages of Abandonment Depression and Key Recovery Steps

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How Does It Feel Like Losing Yourself

Relationship

How Does It Feel Like Losing Yourself

You?ve lost who you might have been if the truth was told to you. Losing yourself in love or relationships is easy, as there are no tangible relationship ...
Headstart to Happy Relationships More Satisfying Life

Mental Health

Headstart to Happy Relationships More Satisfying Life

New Year s Resolutions aren t meant to be achieved. Not in any real or meaningful way anyway. Let s face it, new year s resolutions are about Do overs. ...
What Is the Difference Between Self-Care and Selfishness

Relationship

What Is the Difference Between Self-Care and Selfishness

Most people understand and agree that dating is about gathering information. Would this person I m physically attracted to be a good parent? Would she ...

Office Location

16133 Ventura Blvd,
Encino CaliforniaUnited States 91436