"You are not having relaitonship problems. You are have unreolved childhood problems that are disguised as relationship problems!"
-Love is Blind, but Marriage is an eye opener!"
Licensed Psychotherapist. A Shrink Helping others Expand while Healing Histories, Heeding Hyperreality & Hyperbolic Hysteria through a Hyperconsciousness Self.
Remembering who you ar?e, whom you've thought yourself to be better than and whom you wish you could consistently be in your relatiobships does take work. But just because it's work, doesn’t mean it has to feel labor intensive.
Pain travels through families until someone is ready to feel it.
Consider that childhood is defined by having very little if ANY circumstances in which we were in your control, had any say or power. The difference between a child and an adult isn't the age or even the so called lack of maturity or the impressive miles on your soul. It's having choice. Period.
And because to be a child is to have no real choice in anything , you may have "forgotten" or never considered that to have choices, to feel empowered, to really be mature comes from being taught, modeled, informed, and most of all considered ... enough. Enough because you exist. Period.
The best indicator of a child's well being, is a parent's Self-understanding.
What you may not have emotionally understood is that your power comes from your you. Your Self. Why? because your caretakers (as was theirs and theirs before them) were unaware of the one thing which everyone in childhood needs and almost never receives. - Experiencing their parents as confident, imperfect but willing to see themselves as worthy.
Without knowing that this is the fundamental ingredient in the formation of someone's Self : Their Worth, each generation continues to pass on, perpetuates, encourages the loss of so much opportunity to thrive in a Self-satisfying life.
Licensing & Certifications:
- License State: California
- License Number: mfc101500, received 2017
- M.A, LMFT
Types of Therapy:
- Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy
- Anger Management Therapy
- Attachment-Based Family Therapy
- Behavioral Therapy
- Borderline Personality Disorder Therapy
- Brief Therapy
- Codependency Therapy
- Depth Therapy
- Dream Analysis
- Family Therapy
Services Provided Via:
- In person
- Young people ages 14-17
- Men of Color
- Family members of BPD
Working With Marriages for:
- 10 Year(s)
Free Phone Consultations?
Hourly Fees Range:
- $200 - $250
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