I am promarriage and my goal as a cousnelor is to give couples hope for their relationship to see through current difficulties into a brighter future for their marriage. Marriages need time and space which can be a challenge in a demanding world. In a sense I view marriage as a "third person in the room". Couples are not just with eachother two people meeting individual needs but also a couple and that has a life of its own. Whenever a couple is commited to working through issues to create more love and joy for eachother amazing changes can happen.