People in relationships often find themselves on opposite ends of a struggle for love and sex. Unsure of how to communicate, they fight. Unsure of how to please, they shut down. Unsure of how to love, they check off to-dos on lists hoping their effort will “make it work”. This struggle is timeless and deeply human, but it can be exhausting, bringing with it all of the trauma and powerlessness, anger and resentment, betrayal and pain from previous and current relationships. I help people disrupt the negative patterns that keep them stuck in never ending loops of disconnect and sexlessness.
