Couples get caught in particular patterns that end up creating distance rather than the closeness they desire and sometimes there is a a stepping out of the relationship which creates additional distance and hurt. I am Certified in Emotionally Focused Therapy which identifies the pattern you get into that creates the distance and we practice in the room how to talk at the deeper level of what is underneath the pattern and distancing - all the feelings, anger, rejection, withdrawal, hurt, sadness, feeling not good enough, not being heard, feeling like I do not matter and others that are unique to your own pattern. I would consider it a privilege to help you reconnect so that you can experience the joy of the love that you desire and so that you know how to create the closeness when you find you are in your pattern.
