Most couples come to therapy because something isn't working- communication, intimacy, finances, addiction- and they want to "fix" that problem. But good couples therapy doesn't end there. Couples are uniquely suited to support each person's deep healing. All of us have a few core insecurities stemming from early wounds in our relationships. The wounds occur long before most of meet our partners when we are children. They inevitably surface in our partnership but often we don't realize it. This leads to blame, resentment, endless, unproductive arguments. I help couples identify their core wounds, develop trust and vulnerablity, and the skills to soothe themselves and each other thus creating a secure and vital partnership.
