If you keep having the same argument, feel more like roommates than partners, or aren't sure how to rebuild trust after something broke it, you're not alone. Most couples I work with have been carrying that weight for a while before they reach out. Disconnection, codependency, questions about faith and commitment, the quiet longing for something steadier and more connected. That's exactly the kind of work I do, and I'd be glad to help you find your way through it.
I especially enjoy working with individuals, couples, and families who are ready to look at the patterns beneath the surface—high-conflict couples who want to slow the cycle, premarital (including interfaith) partners building a strong foundation, and those navigating divorce recovery with dignity and care.
I’m Chris Bucky Bateman, a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in California with 20 years of experience. My work centers on secure connection: I use Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and the Gottman Method to help you understand what’s really happening in the moment and practice new ways of reaching for each other. I bring a warm, grounded presence to issues like attachment, communication, commitment concerns, and codependency, and I offer Christian counseling for those who want to integrate their faith.
If this resonates, I’d be honored to meet you. I offer sessions in English, in person in La Jolla and via telehealth across California. If this sounds like what you're looking for, Let's connect.
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