Having married later in life (38) and having been married now for 30 years, I am committed to helping couples find their sweet spot. Oftentimes, couples get married, raise children, and then when the kids leave home, the couple looks at each other and wonders what they are doing together. Other couples seem to split up after several conflicts hoping to find the new romance of another, serial monogamy. Then, when that relationship feels a little stale, they move on again. Still others open up their relationships and invite each other to participate in alternative ways of loving each other, and other people as well. For each couple there is no unique solution to its issues. I work with couples who want to improve their coupleships, deepen their relationships, who want to decide if they want to stay in the couple or not, and how they can manage if there is a split or division between them. We can learn so much about ourselves while bieng in a couple - but staying in a loving coupleship is challenging sometimes for the healthiest of us.
