Many people feel that seeking professional services for their relationships is for those that are “broken”. This is quite the opposite, it is for those that are worth it to you!
As a therapist I respect and appreciate my clients that seek services early on, it shows a foundation of dedication and commitment to the relationship.
Most clients are facing issues with communication or struggling with getting their loved ones to understand their feelings. These are typically easy fixes in the therapeutic process, that when addressed early on, will contribute to a stronger, more fulfilling relationship. You will gain the tools to communicate with one another in a respectful, productive manner from then on and learn how to compliment each other’s lives instead of be an added source of stress.
A relationship only becomes damaged or broken when these issues go on without resolve, creating resentment or distance over time.
If you do feel as though your relationship is damaged beyond repair, do not worry, there is still hope! I have witnessed first hand relationships in this state, that have come full circle and are currently healthier and happier than ever.
Regardless of the current state of your relationship, reaching out for help sooner rather than later will give you the best chance at success.