Whether your goal is to be happy or committed to personal vows, Communication and Conflict Resolution Skills are most important. Two broken winged birds cannot fly. Reflecting and choosing to improve one's self, can change the relationship for good. Even better, is two persons caring enough to change the dance in a relationship. As a relationship expert, there are many theories from which I practice so you can sustain long lasting change. If children are caught in the middle, it's imperative that you seek assistance as soon as possible. Let ove and compassion be your motivation.