When treating couples, I use the Gottman Method because it has 40+ years of research behind it. I begin with a thorough assessment by meeting with both partners together and with each individually, as well as a battery of questionnaires so that we can identify a treatment plan that fits their needs. The treatment involves helping the couple rebuild their friendship, learn to communicate more effectively to help them get through gridlocked problems or process an affair, and to help them create shared meaning as they move forward. The treatment is designed to help the couple learn the tools they need to do this on their own, so that they eventually don't need me to help them with their problems. I don't expect problems to vanish, but I do expect couples to learn ways to successfully manage them together.
