I teach transcendence for couples/marriage. It is a holistic approach. I help people get out of the blaming stages and negative thinking and feeling and make the purpose of their relationship the leader of the relationship so when something goes wrong. you don't have to try and change each other you re-negotiate the purpose for being together. you also make an agreement with each other and keep those agreements to keep the trust, but the agreements are not rigid. you can renegotiate an agreement before you break it and keep the trust.