Relationships are hard, but why? You and your partner bring your history, emotions, and vulnerabilities in to your relationship. Being human means your brain is always on the lookout for anything that could "threaten" your survival. Your brains don't know the difference between a sabre tooth tiger and your partner forgetting your birthday....again. The two of you protect against how you unconsciously hurt each other and it's a problem for you. The love feels gone and you wonder how you can get it back.
I am a relationship counselor that has great compassion for the pain you both feel. I've been there myself. I use state-of-the-art counseling and skills that are simple and effective. If you use them you'll both feel the safety, security, and energy you've always wanted.
If you are feeling the pain of patterns that don't seem to change then you may need a guide. Call me to schedule a free in-person consultation to ask questions and learn about couples therapy.
