As a psychotherapist, I endeavor to provide a space where it is safe for you to explore your intuitions, feelings, thoughts, body sensations, images, fantasies, and actions, such that you may develop the freedom to choose more of what you want in life rather than feeling stuck in old patterns of behavior that no longer serve you well.
As a couples/marriage therapist, I try to work together with my clients, through, and beyond the narrative of competition, with winners and losers. I stress the idea that the main goal of any intimate relationship is for both parties to "win." Relationships are more about participating in a dance, than maintaining a stance.