My husband & I have been married for 30 & together for 27 years. I learned last fall he had an sexaul/relationship affair with a married coworker. 8 yrs ago he found that i had been talking /emailing an exboyfriend- NOT SEXUAL! just talking about family friends, family. It was nothing but talking.
I feel that we need help healing from both of these situations. I have been in counseling for myself to help with coping,depression & anxiety. I personally feel that he need counseling on a one on one type. But just this Monday he has agreed to go to martial counseling.
I would like to repair my marriage, as he states that he does.