I believe in the Strength Based Perspective of Counseling and Marriage Therapy and would like to help the couple to respect each others Differences and Strengths. The couple needs to be taught what a Healthy Marriage and Healthy Relationship look like. The couple needs to learn to be happy as individuals first and be happy with what strengths they have to deliver to the relationship. I have been happily married myself for 27 years so I do know the ins and outs of what it takes to make a marrige work.