The most common presenting problem I hear is: " We are so disconnected," and " We just don't communicate “Chances are your relationship started strong and then gradually life began to get busier, and each partner began to give less attention to nurturing the relationship. Less nurturing equates more irritation and once a couple finds themselves in this cycle it becomes hard to break. This is where I come in as I teach couples how to effectively communicate, actively listen, understand there are healthy ways to have confrontation, conflict, and even a healthy argument. I am a firm believer if two people learn how to properly communicate the rest of the problems in the relationship will start to resolve themselves.