When a couple falls in love, that love they are feeling is alive within the conscious mind. The mind that dreams, sets goals, creates desires and supports the inner wellness of other, while living within a vortex of personal yum.
Well, that's the juicy part. In my work, I focus on the subconsious mind, the mind that holds all the data, memories, hurts and joys that occurred in our early years. That mind is the mind that felt rejection, dismissal, unloved, unworthy, less important, not in conrol, fearful of loss, etc.
So, when a couple professes a journey of a lifetime, that lifetime can be shortened by subconcious triggers that activate each person's early woundology. For example, the first time, your partner was late in picking you up, well maybe that triggered a memory of you as a kid waiting for mom/dad to come get you after their divorce. You sat for hours, and they were late. That encoded a belief that, you might say, people who love me are never late.
Boom, the program got triggered and now you are withholding love. Your partner is sensitive to love being withheld, because that was one her/his stories, and there you go. Bliss interuppted.
My approach is to unravel some of the subconsious data, take away blame, stop with the silly communication games, and begin to create an emotional escrow account that puts you back in the vortex of love.
Kathy pettet is also listed in Best Marriage Therapists in Millheim
Licensing & Certifications:
- License State: PA
- License Number: 90002345, received 2002
- NCC, Life Coach, Advanced Clinical Hypnotherapist, EFT, Reiki/Karuna Reiki, Psychic Mediumship
Services Provided Via:
- In person
- Internet meeting
Working With Marriages for:
- 5 Year(s)
Free Phone Consultations?
Hourly Fees Range:
- $100 - $150