In counseling couples, I go into it knowing that it takes two to tango and not one spouse holds all the blame. I have a no-secrets policy and believe that I work for the relationship. I focus on strengths and help couples manage their weaknesses. I approach counseling from a faith-based perspective but allow couples to determine who much or how deep their faith should be part of their counseling. I am very pro-marriage and will do whatever I can to help couples have healthy relationships but am also aware that some marriages may never work.