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Darlene Lancer, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist | Verified Marriage & Family Therapist Claimed

Darlene Lancer, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist in Santa Monica, CA
Darlene Lancer, Marriage & Family Therapist


Darlene Lancer is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and an expert author on relationships and codependency. She has counseled individuals and couples for 30 years and coaches internationally. Her books include "Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You" and "Codependency for Dummies" and seven ebooks, including: "10 Steps to Self-Esteem," "How To Speak Your Mind - Become Assertive and Set Limits," and "Dealing with a Narcissist: 8 Steps to Raise Self-Esteem and Set Boundaries with Difficult People." They are available on Amazon and her website,, where you can get a free copy of "14 Tips for Letting Go."
Darlene Lancer is also listed in Best Marriage Therapists in Santa Monica

Licensing & Certifications:

  • Licensed: Practice License Verified
  • License State: CA
  • License Number: MFT27909, received 1991
  • JD, LMFT, Hypnosis


Services Provided Via:

  • Phone

Works With:

  • Individual
  • Couples

Working With Marriages for:

  • 32 Year(s)

Free Phone Consultations?

  • Yes

Hourly Fees Range:

  • $150 - $200

Language(s) Spoken:

  • English

My Articles

Self-Esteem Makes Successful Relationships


Self-Esteem Makes Successful Relationships

Research has well established the link between good self esteem and relationship satisfaction. Self esteem not only affects how we think about ourselves ...

My Videos

Overcoming codependency and shame in relationships

Overcoming Codependency And Shame In Relationships

Codependency can creep up into a marriage unannounced. But recognizing this red flag is not easy. Identify signs of codependency and shame in a relationship...
Understanding Narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Understanding Narcissism And Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Narcissistic behavior can wreak havoc on your relationship. A clear understanding of narcissistic personality disorder and its effect of a marriage is...
What is Abuse and How to Deal with Abusers

What Is Abuse And How To Deal With Abusers

Recognizing abuse in a relationship can sometimes be a challenge. Understand what an abusive relationship entails and what you should do help yourself...

Office Location

Darlene Lancer,
Santa Monica CaliforniaUnited States 90402