Drawing mainly from Gottman principles, I help couples learn how to talk to each other most productively and respectfully so each can hear the other clearly. Then I help them explore ways to meet the other's needs as expressed. The main idea is that marriage should be a joint effort, and a compromise, where win-win outcomes are more often achieved. It's not a case of you vs me, but you and me vs the problem. Learn to restore the respect and love you had in the beginning, and enjoy a satisfying marriage again.
