The legacy of a long and happy marriage is the best gift you can offer yourself and your children. Studies show that happily married people live longer, experience richer intimacy and sex, are more financially stable and enjoy deeper friendships. I know it's hard. I've been married for 30 years. But achieving and maintaining a healthy marriage is possible..and well worth your effort, sacrifice and energy. I use a combination of attachment theory, emotion focused therapy and solution focused therapy to help couples learn to communicate better, heal attachment wounds, achieve intimacy and build a relationship that works.