Should we break up? Have you considered whether your relationship has run its course and you are not sure if it is time to end it? Ending a relationship is one of the most challenging things to do. There is a lot of fear and anxiety surrounding a breakup for both people involved. Now is the time to put an end to your misery! Take this quick quiz to see if it is time to end your relationship and move on.
1. Do you still genuinely enjoy spending time together, or do you feel like you are just going through the motions at this point?
A. I honestly feel like we are just going through the motions
B. Sometimes we truly do enjoy each others company, but not always
C. I do still feel like we genuinely enjoy spending time together
2. Do you feel like your relationship is worth saving?
A. I don’t even know anymore
B. I do, and I don’t
C. I really feel like it is
3. Have you had an honest discussion with your partner about how you are feeling?
A. Yes, but nothing changes
B. I have tried, but it is a difficult conversation to have. I don’t know what to say.
C. Yes, and we both agreed to work on it
4. Do you want to break up?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Maybe
5. How often do you feel emotionally supported by your partner?
A. Rarely or never
B. Sometimes, but not consistently
C. I feel emotionally supported most of the time
6. Are you excited about the idea of growing old with your partner?
A. Not really
B. I'm unsure or have mixed feelings about it
C. Yes, I look forward to growing old together
7. How often do you fight?
A. Rarely
B. Often
C. Every now and then
8. How do you feel about your partner's habits or quirks?
A. Their habits annoy or frustrate me consistently
B. Some habits bother me, but I can overlook them
C. I accept their quirks and habits without much trouble
9. Have you lost trust in your partner due to past actions or behaviors?
A. Yes, trust has been significantly broken
B. I have some trust issues but I'm willing to work on it
C. I trust my partner overall
10. How do you feel when you imagine your life without your partner?
A. Relieved or liberated
B. I feel sad or unsure about it
C. I can't imagine my life without them
11. Choose a word for your relationship..
A. Awful
B. Boring
C. Pleasant
12. Do you wish to be in a relationship with someone else?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
13. What comes to your mind when you think about your relationship?
A. Happily ever after
B. Out of each other lives
C. More of a friendship
14. When you think about your future, does it include them?
A. No, it is hard for me to envision marriage and a family with them
B. Sometimes, but I just try not to worry too much about the future
C. I do, but things will need to get better if we are going to have a future
15. Do you both have the same dreams and goals for your future?
A. No, we have different hopes and dreams
B. I used to think so, but I am really not sure anymore
C. Yes, we do
16. Have things gotten so bad that you feel like you are walking on eggshells around them?
A. Yes, all of the time (nearly every day)
B. Frequently (several times a week)
C. Sometimes (1-2 times per week)
17. If you had the option, would you rather spend time with them than anyone else?
A. Not anymore
B. Sometimes
C. Yes, definitely
18. Do you ever feel rejected, ignored, or like your feelings don’t matter?
A. Yes, frequently
B. Sometimes
C. Rarely
19. Do you ever feel unimportant or unappreciated?
A. Yes, frequently
B. Sometimes
C. Not really
20. How is your sex life?
A. What sex life?
B. It is okay, but nothing like it used to be
C. It is still pretty frequent and enjoyable
