1. How does your partner act after a heated argument or conflict that they initiated?
2. When you attempt to communicate about issues that are a source of concern in your relationship, what’s your partner’s reaction?
3. Often, when you both have an engagement and one of you needs to make a sacrifice, what happens?
4. When you are faced with a challenge, what happens?
5. Whenever a disagreement is brewing, what happens?
6. When calls or text messages come in at odd hours, probably due to the nature of your job that steals your attention when you are together, how does your partner react?
7. Something didn’t go right for you in public, what happens?
8. How do they treat you in public?
9. How does your partner treat your relationship with others?
10. How do they respond to issues that concern you?
11. How do they react when you achieve a personal goal or success?
12. What happens when you express a different opinion or disagree with your partner?
13. How often do they apologize when they make a mistake?
14. How do they handle your emotional needs or moments of vulnerability?
15. When you voice concerns about their behavior, how do they react?