Am I Gay Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 10501 | Updated: Feb 27, 2024
Am I Gay Quiz

In today's world, acceptance of different sexual orientations is growing. Whether you're gay or not, you'll find people who embrace inclusivity. It's common to question and explore your sexuality, especially when you're figuring out where you stand. If you're curious or have questions about your sexual orientation, our "Am I gay?" quiz might shed some light on your thoughts.

Questions Excerpt

1. Do you have a sexual interest in men?

A. Yes, I do

B. No, I don't

C. I am not sure

2. Have ever felt any sexual tension around a female?

A. No, I haven't

B. Yes, I have

C. I am not sure

3. Do women feel more comfortable around you than they feel around men?

A. Yes, most of them do

B. I think so

C. I don't think so

4. Do you fancy meeting a guy celebrity or a girl celebrity?

A. Guy

B. Girl

C. I don't mind either

5. Is it difficult to perform sexually with a person of the opposite gender?

A. No, it isn't

B. Not really

C. Yes, it is

6. Do you picture being comfortable in the arms of a person of your gender?

A. Yes, I do

B. Sometimes

C. No, I don't

7. Do you feel shy around people of your gender than the opposite one?

A. No, I don't

B. Kind of

C. Yes, I do

8. Do you dream of having sex with one person or more?

A. One person

B. More than one person

C. I think more than one person

9. Have you ever told any person of the same gender about how you feel?

A. Yes, I have

B. No, I haven't

C. Yes, I may have said indirectly

10. Has your heart always called out to the male gender?

A. Yes, it has

B. I am not sure

C. No, it has never

11. Do you feel giddy when someone of the same sex tries to flirt with you?

A. Yes, always

B. I like it when anyone hit on me

C. Not really

12. Do your sexual fantasies involve people of the same sex?

A. Yes, always

B. They involve people of different genders

C. Not really

13. Have you questioned your sexuality while you were young?

A. Yes, for sure

B. I'm still questioning it

C. Not really as that wasn’t my focus

14. Is a person’s sexual identity an important part of who they are?

A. No, why should it be

B. Yes, it is

C. No, as I think it can be fluid

15. Have you been afraid about your loved ones figuring out your innermost thoughts?

A. Yes, in some ways

B. I’m not sure whether they will get it

C. Not really

16. Do you feel more emotionally connected to people of your own gender?

A. Yes, I feel a deeper connection

B. I feel equally connected to all genders

C. No, I feel more connected to the opposite gender

17. How do you react to romantic scenes in movies between people of the same gender?

A. I find them deeply moving

B. I am indifferent or enjoy all kinds of romantic scenes

C. I prefer romantic scenes between opposite genders

18. When you think about your future partner, what gender do they typically have?

A. The same as mine

B. I haven't settled on a gender; it varies

C. The opposite of mine

19. How do you feel about the idea of a long-term relationship with someone of your own gender?

A. Excited and hopeful

B. Uncertain, but open to possibilities

C. It doesn’t feel right for me

20. Have you sought out information or communities related to LGBTQ+ issues or identities?

A. Yes, frequently

B. Sometimes, out of curiosity

C. Not really interested


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