In relationships, sometimes, it’s easy to overlook our own actions and how they affect those we care about. Through these questions, you will reflect on your attitudes and actions toward your partner to better understand your role in your shared life. Be honest with yourself when answering; this will ensure the most accurate and meaningful insights.
Let's find out through the ‘Am I a Selfish Partner Quiz’ if your relationship has a perfect balance or if there might be room for improvement in how you support and cherish one another.
1. How often do you ask your partner about their day?
A. Always
B. Sometimes
C. Rarely
2. When making decisions, how frequently do you consider your partner's preferences?
A. I always take their preferences into account.
B. I sometimes consider their preferences.
C. I usually just go with what I want.
3. In a disagreement, how do you handle your partner�s opinions?
A. I listen and try to understand their point of view.
B. I listen, but I still prioritize my own opinion.
C. I mostly argue my point until they agree with me.
4. How often do you take on chores or responsibilities without being asked?
A. Frequently
B. Occasionally
C. Rarely or never
5. When your partner needs emotional support, how do you typically respond?
A. I am there to support them however they need.
B. I try to be supportive, but sometimes I get distracted by my own issues.
C. I find it hard to prioritize their emotional needs over mine.
6. How do you celebrate your partner's achievements?
A. I celebrate them as if they were my own.
B. I acknowledge them, but don't make a big deal out of it.
C. I rarely acknowledge them; we usually focus on what I achieve.
7. How often do you initiate plans that you know your partner will enjoy?
A. Very often
B. Sometimes
C. Seldom
8. When it comes to spending money, how do you prioritize expenses?
A. I try to balance our needs and wants equally.
B. I sometimes ask for their input on big purchases.
C. I mainly spend based on what I think is best.
9. How do you handle it when your partner expresses a need for more attention or time with you?
A. I make an effort to adjust my schedule and habits.
B. I try to accommodate them, but I don't change much.
C. I often tell them they are asking for too much.
10. Do you feel that your needs should come first in the relationship?
A. No, I believe in balancing our needs.
B. Sometimes, depending on the situation.
C. Yes, I generally prioritize my needs.
