1. When I get up in the morning I am happy to see my partner?
A. Very much!
B. Depends on my mood
C. It doesn't really matter
D. I don't see my partner too often in the morning
E. We don't sleep together anymore
2. We go out on dates:
A. Once a week
B. Once a month
C. Once in a blue moon
D. Never
E. Yes - several times a week
3. I often tell my partner that I love him or her.
A. Yes - all the time
B. Only sometimes
C. We don't care
D. I find this too hard to do
E. I don't ever feel like it
4. My partner and I don’t keep any big secrets from each other.?
A. No we don't
B. Sometimes, if I think it may hurt them
C. I am not aware of any
D. Well, I do have some secrets of my own
E. I never share anything with them
5. My partner and I spend most of our free time together.
A. Yes, all the time
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Rarely
E. Never
6. We discuss among ourselves before making any big decisions.
A. Yes, all the time
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Rarely
E. Never
7. When my partner is feeling upset, I listen and am generally supportive.
A. Yes, all the time
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Rarely
E. Never
8. My partner and I connect with each other through touch.
A. Yes, lots of times
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Rarely
E. Never
9. My partner and I have a good sex life.
A. Yes, it's great!
B. It's good
C. I think we can do better
D. I'm not very happy about it
E. It's non-existent
10. After being apart for the day when you see each other do you:
A. Kiss and hug
B. Smile at each other
C. Say hello to each other
D. Acknowledge if we happen to bump into each other
E. Ignore each other
11. Valentine's Day is coming up. Which one is more like you:
A. Surprising my spouse with a special getaway together
B. A special intimate dinner at our favorite restaurant
C. Just order in
D. No plans yet
E. Nothing special
