What Is Your BDSM Personality Quiz?

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 382 | Updated: Feb 24, 2022
 What Is Your BDSM Personality Quiz?
Have you explored BDSM culture recently? Have you always been curious about it but never actually tried it? Are you interested in BDSM but aren’t sure what role would be best for you? Your BDSM personality describes everything about how you give and receive pleasure in the world of BDSM. The world of deviant sexual behaviors and erotic pleasures will only arouse you if you are in the right role when you are doing it. Certain things turn people on, and certain things don’t, so what is your BDSM personality? Take this quiz now to find out!

Questions Excerpt

1. What makes you most aroused?

A. Giving all of myself to someone and being the object of their sexual desires.

B. Someone being turned on by me having complete control over them.

C. Someone getting extremely aroused by me humiliating them or inflicting pain for erotic acts.

D. Someone getting extremely aroused while they have complete power to humiliate me and inflict pain for erotic acts.

2. Have you ever tried anything kinky or any BDSM roles before?

A. Not too much.

B. Somewhat, but I would like to do it more.

C. Yes, S&M is my favorite.

D. I know what I like, but haven’t actually tried it because I am scared.

3. Do you get aroused by being the object of someone else’s sexual desires?

A. Yes, completely.

B. I would rather someone else do anything I say to be the object of my desires.

C. Sort of, but more aroused by their pain.

D. Sort of, but more aroused by my pain.

4. How do you feel about the thought of humiliating your partner or degrading your partner?

A. I want to be degraded and humiliated by my partner who has complete control over me.

B. I want to degrade and humiliate my partner and have complete control over them.

C. I want to degrade and humiliate my partner while causing extreme pain for our erotic pleasure.

D. I want to be degraded and humiliated by my partner causing extreme pain for our erotic pleasure.

5. Have you ever fantasized about causing physical harm or pain to someone else for sexual pleasure?

A. I would enjoy receiving pain, but nothing too intense. Not causing pain.

B. I would enjoy causing pain for pleasure, but nothing too intense.

C. Causing as much pain as possible while arousing my partner is my biggest turn on.

D. Receiving as much pain as possible for our mutual arousal is my biggest turn on.

6. Would you enjoy being restrained?

A. Yes, definitely.

B. I would prefer to be the one restraining.

C. No, I am in charge.

D. Not just restrained, also whipped, slapped, bitten, choked or spanked.

7. Have you ever used any type of bondage during sex?

A. I haven’t used it, but I have had it used on me.

B. Yes, all the time.

C. Only if it is for inflicting pain on my partner.

D. If my partner says so and it’s for the purposes of inflicting pain.

8. Do you like the idea of acting out fantasies or role playing?

A. Yes, definitely. As long as it isn’t too intense and my partner takes charge.

B. Yes, definitely. As long as it isn’t too intense and I’m in charge.

C. Yes, if there is a scene in mind where I can inflict pain.

D. Yes, if I am being tortured and humiliated.

9. Which do you prefer?

A. Being submissive.

B. Being dominant.

C. Causing pain for sexual pleasure.

D. Receiving pain for sexual pleasure.

10. Which would you prefer?

A. Someone having complete control over me.

B. Having complete control over someone else.

C. Inflicting pain that turns my partner on.

D. Receiving pain that turns my partner on.


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