1. When was the last time that he talked about his ex-wife?
A. A few months ago for some legal reasons
B. Just recently without any particular reason
C. A long time ago.
2. Do you think that if he would have the option to help his ex-wife, he would?
A. It would depend on the things that are involved.
B. In a heartbeat
C. She wouldn’t even know how to contact him.
3. What does he say when you ask him about his status with his ex-wife.
A. “We are civil towards each other.”
B. “We are very close friends.”
C. “I don’t even know what’s happening in her life anymore.”
4. How did you find out about his ex-wife?
A. It was one of the things that we talked about when we first started seeing each other.
B. He always talks about her.
C. I asked him about her.
5. Does he still talk to some of his ex-wife’s friends?
A. There are some matters wherein he needs to contact them but only for important matters.
B. He still hangs out with the same circle of friends as his ex-wife.
C. He has broken off all contact with the friends of his ex.
6. Does he show signs of being jealous of his ex-wife’s new lover?
A. You just feel like he does not like the new lover.
B. Yes, he says that he is not good for her.
C. He does not even know that she has a new lover.
7. Do you suspect that they are talking behind your back?
A. Not really cause he tells me everything.
B. Yes, because I feel like he is too secretive sometimes.
C. Not at all.
8. Does he show signs that he is nervous or angry when you ask him some questions about his ex?
A. No, he just answers my questions.
B. Yes, he becomes a bit angry and tells me to stop asking questions.
C. No, he tells me what I need to know.
9. Do you feel like you do not have his heart completely because of his ex?
A. No, because he is very honest.
B. Yes, because there are times when I catch him just checking his ex wife’s social media profile.
C. No, I feel like his heart is mine.
10. Does he make it seem like he is more comfortable with his ex-wife than he would ever be with you?
A. Not really.
B. Yes, he would say some things that will make me feel insecure.
C. Absolutely not.