A healthy and successful marriage is based on love. Love unites two people to live together forever. Out of this love originates trust. How much of this trust is necessary for a marriage to be successful? Attempt this quiz to find out how much you trust your spouse! It will help you identify your present trust levels and improve on them to have a happy married life. Note: This quiz is intended as a self examination about your attitude towards trusting your spouse. It is not intended to indicate the trustworthiness of your spouse. It is only a tool to allow you to consider issues that may be reflective of your own trust issues in your marriage.Please do not make any hasty decisions based upon the results of this quiz.
1. Do you both check each other’s phones?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. Not really
D. Do not feel the need to
2. Your partner says they are going on a business/work-related trip. How do you feel about it?
A. What if they are going with someone else?
B. It’s alright
C. I hope they have a good trip
D. I enjoy my time alone
3. If your spouse comes home later than expected, do you think they are doing something wrong?
A. Always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Never
4. If you lost your wallet/purse, are you comfortable with your spouse looking through your personal space (drawers, closet, pockets, briefcase purse, etc.) to help you find it?
A. Always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Never
5. Does your spouse get angry when you ask for an explanation about arriving home late?
A. Always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Never
6. Does your spouse spend a lot of time with close friends and family members that do not like you?
A. Always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Never
7. Have you met friends and regular acquaintances of your spouse who were surprised to learn that you were married?
A. Always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Never
8. Do you suspect or know that your spouse has a secret bank account without your name?
A. I Absolutely know it.
B. I highly suspected it.
C. It has crossed my mind.
D. There is no way.
9. Do you keep certain faults a secret from your spouse in fear that they might be used against you?
A. Always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Never
10. When you meet your spouse’s friends and relatives, do they speak about personal situations you shared in confidence with your spouse?
A. Always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Never
11. Are you comfortable with your spouse knowing all of your personal passwords and keys to locks?
A. Always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Never
12. When you apologize to your spouse for doing wrong, are you later reminded about what you had done after getting in an argument?
A. Always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Never
13. Do you feel you have to remind your spouse to complete important family-related tasks or do them yourself to ensure that they get done?
A. Always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Never
14. Do you feel comfortable making major purchases without consulting your spouse?
A. Always
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Never
15. If your spouse won a million dollar lottery, would you be concerned about being divorced soon?
A. Absolutely
B. I have my suspicions
C. Not sure
D. No way
