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  • WRIGHT6 asked a question on Aug 25, 2015
    Can you give an advice for marriage that can help me lifelong?
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  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    How can I avoid money problems in a marriage?
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    Many couples struggle with money problems, and there are many potential sources for developing financial problems. To avoid these issues, you should be open and honest with yourselves and each other about your habits with money. Many couples include financial concerns in pre-marital counseling, but if you haven’t already done so, have a frank discussion about how you deal with bills, spending, shopping, giving, and saving. Some couples take financial courses together or read books about financial strategies. This way they can grow together in their knowledge of financial issues and hold each other accountable for living up to their own goals and expectations.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    How to solve serious problems in a marriage?
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    Serious marital problems include things like abuse and infidelity, but other problems in a relationship can also be serious, such as substance abuse or other addictions, perpetual lying and sexual problems. Most of the time, serious problems are hard to resolve on your own. That’s because people have behavior patterns that they go back to over and over, even if it’s damaging their marriage, simply because they don’t know how to change. It’s usually helpful in those cases to have an advocate or mediator who can help you talk through the issues. Professional counseling is a good option in this case.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    How can I know that I have problems in my marriage?
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    Chances are, if you’re asking the question, you may be having problems already. If you are concerned about marital fidelity or spousal abuse, the signs are fairly obvious and easy to identify. If you aren’t sure whether you’re being abused, you can look for resources online that can help you know if you’re in an abusive relationship. There are also numerous articles on the internet that can help you determine if your spouse may be cheating on you. If you’re having the usual marital difficulty of not communicating well or having the same arguments over and over, marital counseling may be an option that will help.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    How to tell others if I have a marriage problem?
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    Bringing others into your marital problems can be risky. First, be sure you understand your own motives for doing so. There are some good reasons for telling others what you’re going through, like getting support from your family and loved ones when you’re distressed. You should anticipate that they will have their own feelings about your marital problems, though, and they may give you advice, some of which will not be very helpful. If you need support that’s more objective, consider seeing a counselor. They are professionally trained to listen and give good advice.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    How should I talk to my husband about serious marriage problems?
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    Raising the issue with your husband can be scary, and you’ll probably worry about how he’ll respond. If you have concerns about your safety once the matter is on the table, consider bringing a friend or clergy into the discussion – someone who can advocate for you and keep things civil. Whether you’re concerned about safety or just want to open a discourse, you should find a time when you and your husband are both relaxed. Use “I statements” to tell him how you’re feeling without assigning blame, and look for solutions as a couple. Remember, you are a team and you’ll need to face these problems together.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    How much does marriage counseling cost without insurance?
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    The cost of marriage counseling will vary depending on who you choose as a counselor. For professional counseling services, there are many different degrees and certifications that a licensed counselor might have. The more training they have in the specialty, the more they will cost as a general rule. Prices can range from $85 - $125 per session in many settings, but you might also find a counselor who works on a sliding scale system. In that case, you may be able to pay as little as $35 - $60 per session. To be sure, you should call around to different counselors and ask about the cost.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    How to behave on the first day of marriage counseling?
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    The first time you see a marriage counselor, he or she will probably want to hear a little bit about your background and what kind of marital problems you’re dealing with. Prepare yourself to be completely candid about past relationships and any previous counseling experiences. Be yourself as much as possible, as it will help the counselor gain insight into the problematic relationship patterns you and your spouse are trying to overcome. Most importantly, be honest with yourself, your spouse and your counselor about how you are feeling. Then do your best to express those feelings without damaging the relationship.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    How to bring up marriage counseling to your spouse?
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    If you’re thinking about seeing a marriage counselor, it’s best to raise the issue with your spouse when you’re both already relaxed. If you wait until you’re in the heat of an argument, it probably won’t go over well. It can be helpful to bring it up for discussion by using the problem-solution model. You’ll first need to gain agreement from your spouse that there is a problem, so start by confirming what you both know are the existing problems in the relationship. Follow that up by simply offering that one idea might be to go to marriage counseling, and be open to other solutions suggested by your spouse.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    Where can I get relationship advice for free?
    There are many online sources that offer relationship advice, and numerous self-help books available at your local public library for free. If you want answers to specific relationship questions, try asking one of the many columnists that publish in newspapers or online. They might give you an answer for free, and you can usually read their answer without paying. You can also find a wealth of information on forums like Reddit and Gaia. Bear in mind that for good relationship advice, it’s best to consult a professional. Some relationship counselors also have free websites where you can get good advice.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    How can I give relationship advice to my friend who is bad at relationships?
    Setting the right expectation for a relationship is often helpful in relationships. People who have historically been bad at relationships might not have a very good understanding of appropriate boundaries or communication skills. Encourage realistic expectations of your friend’s dating partner as well as healthy relationship boundaries . Boundaries in a relationship can help each person feel safe. The idea is to not hurt the one you love and to treat their feelings with respect. If your friend can respect the boundaries of their romantic partner and learn to communicate their feelings, their chances for a good relationship will improve.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    I need advice on how to make my relationship work.
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    Relationships work best when everyone involved gets what they need from the pairing. This can be in terms of emotional needs like trust, security, affection, respect, etc. or physical needs such as sexual desire or fulfillment and financial stability. If your relationship isn’t working, you can look at the problems in terms of each partner’s needs. It’s important to know the difference between wants and needs here, but if you look at what you need that you’re not getting, you might find the solution quickly. Also ask about your partner’s needs and be prepared to meet them halfway.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    Need relationship advice that helps couples to stay together.
    Couples who stay together the longest report having a stronger bond because of the unique or “novel” experiences they’ve had together. Working as partners to overcome obstacles is essential for a couple that wants to stick it out when things get tough. Practicing teamwork, whether in child rearing or competitive sports, can help strengthen the bond a couple shares. They should look for opportunities to do unusual things together and activities where they will have to work as a team to succeed. It may also be helpful if they take notice of how they’ve changed for the better since becoming a couple.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    How should newlyweds avoid marriage problems?
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    The best advice for newlyweds is to realize that relationships take work from both parties. Husbands and wives must be willing to learn from mistakes, grow together and individually, support each other no matter what and compromise when conflict arises. The bottom line is team work. Couples must learn to make decisions together as a team and practice equal partnership. None of this is as easy as it seems. Learning good communication skills early, practicing active listening and understanding one another’s different personality types can also be helpful in solving problems quickly when they do come up.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    I am seeking some relationship advice to get my ex back in my life. Please help!
    It may be hard to convince an ex to give you another chance, but there may be a few things you can try. First, do you understand what caused the breakup between you, and have the circumstances changed? If nothing has changed, then nothing will be different, so there’s not much point in starting all over. If things have changed, then letting your ex know what’s different might encourage them to take a fresh look at dating you, but in the end it will be up to them. If you do win them back, be sure you’re not making all the same old mistakes that caused problems before.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    Please give me some relationship advice on how to end a long term relationship peacefully?
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    The decision to break up with someone you’ve been with for a long time is hard news to deliver. Oftentimes, just bringing up the subject of breaking up will end up causing an argument or even a physical fight. If you’re concerned about your safety, you should be sure to enlist the help of a friend who can advocate for you and maintain safety when you tell your partner it’s over. You can also avoid conflict by not giving any reason why you want to break up so that there’s nothing to argue over. When one person in a relationship wants to break it off, it’s over.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    Please tell me how to deal with a break up. Need immediate relationship advice.
    The sting of the breakup will only decrease with time, but at first it can be so painful that we make it worse on ourselves by not dealing with it well. Remember that the first and most important relationship you have is with yourself. Taking care of yourself during a breakup is paramount, as the stress to your psyche and your body is intense. Make sure you are getting adequate rest and moderate exercise. Eat good food and reach out to your friends for support. It’s OK to take more time for yourself right now. You don’t have to be productive. Find some way to laugh and enjoy the moment.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    I need some relationship advice that can help me if I am about to live someone with Borderline Personality Disorder?
    If the person you’re going to live with is in treatment for Borderline Personality Disorder, that is already a big help. They should be actively taking steps to learn de-escalation skills and how to correct distorted thinking. The best way you can get along with your loved one with BPD is to ask them for information about their triggers and how to help them de-escalate. Be aware that both perception and cognition is distorted by the disease, so there may be vehement disagreements from time to time about what exactly happened or what was meant by someone or something.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    Can you suggest me some relationship advice to stop being clingy in a relationship?
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    If you can determine why you’re clinging in a relationship, then you’ll find it easier to let go. Most of us hold on too tightly when we’re worried we might lose the one we love. This could be due to our own low self-esteem: we think we’re not worth their love and sooner or later they’ll discover the truth. This is a total fallacy and can be a self-fulfilling prophecy, so take steps to boost your own self-worth. You can do this by taking a class in something that interests you, spending time with people who value you highly (think friends and family), and achieving an academic or personal goal.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    How do I stop being clingy from my boyfriend? I need some relationship advice.
    Clinginess can result from several sources, and usually is due to a mix of factors. Girls who hold on too tightly often suffer from low self-esteem and fear of abandonment. It’s important to determine whether those fears are grounded in the current reality or something experienced in the past, with the father or another male figure. When you can see that your boyfriend does value and appreciate you, wants to be with you and isn’t looking for someone else, it’s easier to let go. Also, girls who spend time pursuing their own interests and hanging out with their friends are less likely to cling to their boyfriends.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    Can you give me a relationship advice as to how communicate better?
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    Communication always has three parts: the speaker, the listener and the message. As a speaker, you can improve communication by using “I statements” and choosing your words carefully to describe your own feelings, memory or beliefs. As a listener you can get better at communicating by asking clarifying questions, rephrasing what you’ve heard, and using active listening skills. Sometimes we misinterpret the meaning behind what other people say, so if you think you heard something upsetting, try verifying that you understood what the speaker meant. It could be their wrong choice of words that upset you, not what they were really trying to say.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    I need relationship advice that can help me to stop being jealous from my boyfriend's female friends.
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    If you’re having trouble with jealousy, there could be a few reasons. Are you feeling insecure about your boyfriend’s feelings of attraction toward other women? That could be for a good reason, if his behavior is flirtatious. If you’re worried he might stray, it’s best to objectively consider whether your fears are based on his suspicious actions or your own self-esteem. If you feel inferior to other women in general, especially physically, then you can rid yourself of those feelings by building up your own confidence. To increase self-confidence, try learning a new skill, accomplishing a goal or overcoming an obstacle.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Oct 30, 2017
    How to give the best relationship advice to a couple who is bad at relationships?
    Couples with a prior history of bad relationships will have a lot of scars from earlier experiences.  That doesn’t necessarily make them bad at relationships, but they will have to work extra hard to make their relationship healthy.  We all learn bad relationship habits from our parents and those around us, and we often make the same mistakes they did –even repeat them throughout our lives.  The best relationship advice for a friend is to learn from their past experiences and try to do better the next time. Look for ways to help them turn a failure into a growth opportunity.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    I need some useful pregnancy advice that can help me in further stages of pregnancy as well.
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    While each woman and each pregnancy are different, there are some typical experiences for most women in their third trimester. Feelings of sluggishness and irritability are common, as the additional baby weight can put a lot of stress on a woman’s body. It’s normal to feel drained of energy during this phase, so it’s important to take care of your physical and mental needs. Eat lots of green, leafy vegetables and take prenatal vitamins to help keep your strength up. Doing yoga and meditating can help reduce your stress and increase your stamina, and moderate exercise will help you feel better overall.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    Where can I make friends online? Tell me some websites.
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    A lot of people make friends online using social mediaprofiles like Twitter and Instagram, but there are other ways to find people with common interests, too. Message boards for topics you’re interested in, television shows you watch or social causes you care about are a great place to start. Many people find friends through playing games online or chatting with others who blog or vlog about their favorite games. Commenting on videos from YouTubers you enjoy can also help you meet people with similar interests, too. In general, you should look for friends in places where you know you’ll find like-minded people, or at least share a common interest.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    What are the best ways to concieve twins?
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    The key deciding factor in conceiving twins is family history, but there are some things you can do to boost your chances. Some research suggests that taking folic acid will help. Other studies cite increased dairy consumption and higher maternal weight as probable indicators of having twins. At least one study saw a huge jump in twin birth rate among mothers who were nursing at the time of conception, with a rate nine times higher than mothers who were not nursing. If none of those works for you, keep trying. Research shows that women with more children are more likely to conceive twins.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    Everybody has their own opinion of divorce. I want to know some unknown facts about divorce.
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    Here are some facts about divorce that not everybody knows: · The divorce rate increases in people who have already been divorced at least once, and that chance increases each time they remarry. · The average amount of time it takes to get divorced in the U.S. is about one year. · Ronald Regan is the only U.S. president known to have been divorced. · People wait about three years, on average, to remarry after a divorce. · Marriages are more likely to last longer in couples who have a comfortable income and college education. · Couples without kids get divorced at just a fractionally higher rate than couples with children.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    How can I concieve a baby girl?
    Couples who try for one sex or another when conceiving a baby experience mixed results with traditional methods, but if you don’t want in vitro fertilization, there is one persistent theory. The man’s sperm is what determines the sex of your child, and sperm that make boys are said to be much faster, but also more vulnerable to an acidic environment than the ones that make girls. This is why some women use a vinegar-and-water douche prior to sex, and others suggest not having sex after about the third day of your fertility window, allowing the boy sperm to die off and girls to have a chance at fertilizing the egg.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    I am expecting and I need some tips that can help me in pregnancy till the time of my baby's birth
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    Pregnancy can be hard on a woman’s body even when everything goes well. To give yourself the best chance at a healthy pregnancy, be sure to get adequate rest. Don’t assume you know how much you should be sleeping; follow your body’s cues instead. Take care of your overall health and lifestyle choices, such as eating right and exercising in moderation. Stop smoking and consult your physician about reducing or eliminating prescription drugs while you’re pregnant. Be sure you are actively managing stress levels too, as stress hormones can affect your pregnancy. Deep breathing, yoga and meditation are known to help with stress.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    The increasing number of divorce cases has taken me aback from the thought of getting married. What should I do?
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    The higher rate of divorce in our times doesn’t necessarily indicate a higher percentage of failed marriages. The truth is, many marriages were unhappy in the past, but now the taboo has been lifted from couples wanting to dissolve their unions. These days, people have a chance to start over or find happiness if they can’t work things out, rather than staying in bad relationships for the sake of family, religious reasons or the law itself. Take your marriage vows seriously, make the commitment to stay together, and don’t choose someone to spend the rest of your life with until you know it’s the right decision.
  • WRIGHT6 answered a question on Oct 07, 2016
    What are the essential nutrients for a pregnant women?
    Due to the rapid cell division taking place in a developing fetus, a high amount of folic acid is needed during pregnancy. Supplemental folic acid is also frequently taken before conception to boost the expectant mother’s blood levels of the essential vitamin.  Other vitamins and nutrients that are essential for pregnant women include vitamins A and D, calcium, zinc, iron and iodine. Most prenatal vitamins have higher doses of these ingredients than standard multi-vitamins. You should always consult your doctor about which one to take, but taking them as directed should provide all the nutrient boost needed to support a healthy pregnancy.
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