- Simonf3 asked I met my girlfriend after browsing through dating sites online and finding her under the foreign women seeking men filter. We both live in the same city, so scheduling dates wasn’t an issue. After about a month of going out, we made it official. However, I noticed that she hasn’t been replying to my chats as much as she used to and she keeps making excuses not to go out. My friend told me that she saw her at a restaurant with another foreign man and they looked pretty sweet together. I confronted her about it and she simply told me that we never said we would be “exclusive”. She says she prefers to have an open relationship and if I can’t handle that, I should just leave. I don’t know what to do right now and honestly, I’m just left wondering why am I not good enough for her? I was really hoping that she could be the one, but I guess I was wrong.