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  • Michelle answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    How to deal with small relationship troubles that later on become major issues?
    You need to calmly or jokingly tell you partner that you don't like it when they do certain things. To make it easier, tell them what you prefer as opposed to what it is they're currently doing. This will help to curb bad habits before they form and become a huge issue later on in your relationship.
  • Michelle answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    How can small problems in relationships be avoided?
    Small problems can be avoided by pick your battles. Not everything has to be confronted. Unless it really bothers you, let it go. Know when to fight and how to approach the topic. I believe that approach and tone are everything. It can be the difference between a quite discussion and a huge blow up.
  • Michelle answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    What can be some gifts for wedding anniversary?
    It depends on what year of the anniversary is being celebrated. There are books that tell you what you should give your spouse of someody who is celebrating an anniversary for each year of their marriage. Some of the things includes an item made out of glass, wood, crystal etc.
  • Michelle answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    What can be the most apt gift for wedding?
    It honestly think that it depends on what kind of couple you're shopping for. Are they outdoorsy, addventurous, tech geeks, renaissance buffs. It all depends on their hobbies or whatever they like to do. So keep that in mind when shopping for a wedding gift. It'll definitely be very helpful.
  • Michelle answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    Are there any benefits of same sex marriages?
    Now that gay marriage has been legalized, gay couples get all the rights that heterosexual couples do, which in my opinion, should've been done a long time ago. No longer do they have to wait outside a hospital room because they aren't family or not getting conjugal visits like normal couples do. There are lots of advantages, things that heterosexual couples took for granted.
  • Michelle answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    Does asking questions about relationships really help or should we sort out problems on our own?
    Asking questions definitely help, especially if this is your first marriage. Nobody knows everything and you are bound to run into some issues that you have no idea how to handle. Wherever you get your advice from, let it be from a licensed professional. You don't want to try bad advice when the situation may already be bad.
  • Michelle answered a question on Jul 20, 2020
    Should I change my eating habits while planning a baby?
    Yes you should! You should start taking more vitamins and eating healthier, especially if you're the kind of woman who loves to eat junk food, fast food, drink alcohol and smokes. A doctor or nutritionist would be the best person to tell you exactly what you should be taking in order to begin this process.
  • Michelle answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    How do you come to know that you are pregnant?
    The best way to know for sure if you're pregnant is to do a blood test. This is great for people who may feel like they're pregnant but it's too early for a pregnancy test to say. The blood test can pick up on the amount if HCG in your body better than an at home test can. If you're able to wait, I'd say take an at home test. They're cheap and pretty reliable.
  • Michelle answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    I need some relationship advice that can help me if I am about to live someone with Borderline Personality Disorder?
    Borderline personality disorder often means that the person is emotionally unstable. If you're willing to live with someone who suffers from it, you need to be very mentally strong as it will no doubt be a very difficult task. Ask yourself if it's worth it and if you're able to get that person the help that they need.
  • Michelle answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    I am seeking some relationship advice to get my ex back in my life. Please help!
    Before you do that, you should ask yourself if this is what your really want. You and your ex broke up for a reason. If he or she hurt you really badly then you should probably reconsider this wentire idea. If it wasn't such a bad break up, think about what you did to catch their iattaention when guys first me.
  • Michelle answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    How can I give relationship advice to my friend who is bad at relationships?
    Tell your friend that there must be a reason for the continous patterns in her relationship Tell her that you think that she should take a break from dating or having boyfriends or girlfriends and try to find herself. She has to figure out what she wants based on her personality and what she is willing to tolerate. Counseling couldn't hurt either.
  • Michelle answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    How to behave on the first day of marriage counseling?
    You should be open about your issues from the start. But don't unload your life story onto the therapist. He or she is usually the one who steers the conversation depending on the responses that you give to the questions that she asks. So like I said, be honest, say what you feel even if it might hurt your partner, but just watch how you say it.
  • Michelle answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    How to tell others if I have a marriage problem?
    Why would you want to tell people about your marital problems in the first place? If it isn't your parents, his parents, your friends or kids, you should try to work it out with your husband. I don't think you should be discussing your problems with people who wont do anything to help you and those are people in your support system.
  • Michelle answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    I am having an affair with my boss. How can I hide this truth from my husband?
    You probably don't even deserve your husband. Why take measures to cover up what you're doing? Are you doing it for a raise, for a promotion? This is really sad. You should just end your marriage, that way you'll be free to sleep with whoever you want to without having to hide anything, unless of course your boss is also married.
  • Michelle answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    Do wives, who have affairs outside the marriage, deserve another chance?
    I believe that they do deserve another chance. Like KarmaChameleon said, there needs to be something seriously lacking for a woman to go outside of her marriage and sleep with somebody. I think the best thing to do is try to figure out what that was and how you as a husband can now fulfill it.
  • Michelle answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    How much time does healing a marriage take?
    It also depends on what kind of person you are. Are you very forgiving or do you hold grudges, becuase that can significantly lengthen or shorten the healing process depending on what your wife or husband or both of you have done to hurt each other. Counseling and therapy may help speed things along a little.
  • Michelle answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    Is flirting risky if I am married?
    If your wife or husband doesn't mind and he's given you the ok to indulge in a little harmelss flirting then I guess you can. Be careful though, fliritng could lead to you developing feelings for that person and driving a wedge between you and your spouse. I honestly believe that flirting while married is a recipe for infidelity and a disaster.
  • Michelle answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    Is flirting with women possible without being creepy?
    Ofcourse it can! You need to have boudaries, especially if you're flirting with a woman you just met or just started dating. Refrain from discussing sex or sexual positions and fantasies; it's a bit too soon for that. Don't say anything you think a stalker would say, like you'd want to live in their hair or anythig weird like that.
  • Michelle answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    What are the most irritating things about casual dating?
    When dating, let's get real, you probably won't like everything about the person you're seeing right off the bat but here is a list of pet peeves that could just get your blood boiling: 1. Your date not showing up 2. Your date (if you're a girl) not paying the bill on the first date 3. Bad hygiene 4. Awful vocabulary 5. Dates who just can't stop talking about themselves
  • Michelle answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    Why married people seek an affair outside the marriage?
    Some people cheat because they're bored in the bedroom. They're gotten tired and used to the same old sex year after year. You should keep things fun and spicy and not the same old stale things. Some people also cheat because their partners aren't willing to do the things that they want to do in the bedroom.
  • Michelle answered a question on Sep 02, 2015
    What are the warning signs of troubled marriage?
    Yes there definitely are but you have to be very vigilant to pick up on them in the early stages. It can be things like less talking on the phone, more time at work, less time spent together, more arguing over petty things, less compliments being shared, being secretive, less communication, etc. All of these need to be unexplained occurences.