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  • LuckyInLove answered a question on Sep 01, 2015
    Can you help me save my marriage from divorce?
    You guys should try some counseling if you already haven't. Get somebody to mediate so that you both can express yourselves, your wants and needs, your disappointments, your flaws in a calm setting. If you have treid counseling and it hasnt worked, try some team building and communication exercises.
  • LuckyInLove answered a question on Sep 01, 2015
    Can you help me save my marriage after having an affair?
    After something like that, communication and honesty is key.Trust has to be re-establishe and it could take a while before you both are able to look passed this hurdle. The past will keep haunting the wronged party and it is definitely not easy to get over it. You need to be prepared for the journey because it will definitely be rough.
  • LuckyInLove answered a question on Sep 01, 2015
    Can communication problems break a relationship?
    It most definitely can. A relationship without a good flow of communication is doomed to fail. You need to be able to talk to your partbner and understand them. One can only do those things by communicating with them. In turn, the same must be done for you. It is a two way flow of information.
  • LuckyInLove answered a question on Sep 01, 2015
    Can a relationship therapist improve communication and relationships?
    the point of a relationship therapist is to help couples sort out their issues, whatever they may be, so that they can get back on track to being a healthy happy couple. So I do believe that relationship therapists can help. The two prior post have it pinned down exactly. It helps open up a new path for communication to flow.
  • LuckyInLove answered a question on Sep 01, 2015
    Does break up help in moving ahead in life?
    Sometimes break ups can hold you back. You become so depressed that your past relationship is all you can think about. It can incapacitate you, at which point you need to rely heavily on your support system (your friends and family) to help you move on with your life. Different people handle break ups differently.
  • LuckyInLove answered a question on Sep 01, 2015
    Is relationship therapist as a career right for me?
    If you love it, are passionate about it and good at it, I don't see why not. It can be a bit difficult to be a counselor though, Hearing about people's problems may have a draining effect you on, but it is definitely a fulfilling career. Sit down and consider all the pros and cons and be sure to think about how they would affect you before you decide what you want to do.
  • LuckyInLove answered a question on Sep 01, 2015
    Do gay couples need counseling?
    If they're having issues communicating or anything else, just like any heterosexual couple (it is still a relationship regardless of the sex of the parties) yes, I would suggest that they get counseling. There is no law that says that they shouldn't. In fact they may need it more because of all the discrimination that they may have faced while being together.
  • LuckyInLove answered a question on Sep 01, 2015
    Why are people so against gay marriages?
    Some people just can't understand the concept of a man loving another man or a woman loving another woman in that way. Generally these people can be considered to be very close minded and judgemntal individuals. Others say that it is wrong in the eyes of their religion and therefor are unable to support it.
  • LuckyInLove answered a question on Sep 01, 2015
    Are there any benefits of same sex marriages?
    There are many benefits for the couples who want to get married and previously could not. Gay partners can now have all the rights as heterosexual couples do, which I think is an amazing thing. 1. Medical decisions being made for the partner 2. Sick leave to care for your partner 3. Immigration 4. Child custody 5. Visitation rights at the hospital or prison
  • LuckyInLove answered a question on Sep 01, 2015
    Does asking questions about relationships really help or should we sort out problems on our own?
    Yes it does! How else would you expect to fix something you're unsure about than to ask. There are a multitude of sources that you can get relationship advice from. I do think that the little things can be sorted out by you and your partner thorugh a little compromising but for the more challenging issues, definitely seek help.
  • LuckyInLove answered a question on Sep 01, 2015
    Why long distance relationships are so short lived?
    Long distance realtionships are tough to begin with with. You are thousands or hundreds of miles away from your partner and you have to try to make it work. I belive that theyre so short lived because the couple tends to grow apart if the constant communication isnt there and if their needs aren't being met or exacerbated by the distance.
  • LuckyInLove answered a question on Sep 01, 2015
    How to plan for a healthy pregnancy?
    The most you can do is to get your body in the best shape and health possible before you conceive. Give the baby it's optimal chance to be healthy. You can also consult a physician so they can give you some tips as to what vitamins and supplements would be best for pregannacy preparation.
  • LuckyInLove answered a question on Sep 01, 2015
    In what ways my husband can help me in conceiving a baby?
    First off your husband should probably check his sperm motility rate. That'll give you some information as to how healthy his sperm is. He can take supplement prescribed by a doctor to help if need be. I'm not a professional but I'd think that the nearer he releases the sperm, the more likely the chances of them getting to the egg.
  • LuckyInLove answered a question on Sep 01, 2015
    Is intimacy important in a friendship?
    No it definitely isn't! Especially if we're referring to a platonic friendship. If this is more than a friendship, then yes, intimacy is very important. For just friends though, you do need to understand each other's needs in order to be the best friend you can possibly be to each other.
  • LuckyInLove answered a question on Sep 01, 2015
    What is divorce mediation process?
    Divorce mediation is when you and your spouse (who you are about to divorce) sit down to decide who gets what or baiscally how your combined assets should be split up. It can be a very lengthy process, made longer if you guys do not agree on the division that the other wants to see put in place. This includes child support, child custody, house, land, cars etc.
  • LuckyInLove answered a question on Sep 01, 2015
    How do you come to know that you are pregnant?
    Pregnancies are not the same for every woman. Some women say they can just tell because of the differences in their bodies, some need to take pregnancy tests and some rely on the symptoms of pregnant women to guide them. Some women never even know theyre pregnant until theyre about to give birth.
  • LuckyInLove answered a question on Sep 01, 2015
    How to get help from an expert? I want to get pregnant?
    You should make sure that you and your body are ready for a baby. Then you should see a gynecologist, obstetrician or a fertility specialist. They can be found at hospitals, clinics, offices, and basically any medical facility in your neighborhood or town. Make the appointment and ask them everything you're anxious to know.
  • LuckyInLove answered a question on Aug 31, 2015
    I want to get pregnant but my husband doesn't want a baby. How to deal with this situation?
    You and your husband need to come to a concensus on what it is that you both want. If at the end he doesn't want a baby, consider adopting a small child. If he doesn't want children period, you need to leave because you will eventually hate him for not giving you something that is so important to you.
  • LuckyInLove answered a question on Sep 01, 2015
    Why can't I get pregnant? How do I know if I am infertile?
    The question of infertility can indeed be a difficult thing to face. sadly, there is no at home test that can give you the answers that you seek. Only a doctor can tell you your chances of fertility. Please don't seek other methods for the sake of your help. Make an appointment to visit your doctor to find out what the problem may be.
  • LuckyInLove answered a question on Sep 01, 2015
    How can I concieve a baby girl?
    X linked chromosomes (the one which lets you have a girl) have been said to love acidity which can be found closest to the openng of the vagina. Y linked chromosomes have been said to become weakened by this acidity. Therefore if the theory is correct, it would help your cause of you deposit the sperm close to the base of the vagina.