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  • LAMB56 answered a question on Sep 22, 2015
    Does marriage healing require patience for both spouses?
    Patience is essential for most important things in life, including marriage healing. Because there has been a lot of hurt and damage, you need to be very patient with each other and also with yourself. Know that you are on the road to healing and that it will be a long journey consisting of many small steps. So pace yourself and rest when you need to. Set small goals for yourself and celebrate when you see some progress no matter how small it is. And don’t forget to constantly affirm your spouse when you see them doing something good and right.
  • LAMB56 answered a question on Sep 22, 2015
    How to make friends with single people in the dating community?
    A good place to make friends is in a group where you can do things together on a social level. If you have a particular hobby or sporting interest, that could be a starting point. Perhaps you could even take up a new hobby. If you attend a church where there are other single people they may have a singles group which meets regularly for fun and fellowship. Try to meet people at places where you enjoy being so that you can find someone who has similar interests and values as yours. Then as your friendship develops you can continue to do those fun things together.
  • LAMB56 answered a question on Sep 22, 2015
    What are the flirting tips for women to attract men towards them?
    It is possible to be very attractive to men without resorting to flirting. If you concentrate on being a person of integrity, with an interesting character, someone who is caring and compassionate towards others, you will find that you attract the kind of men who would value you as a person. Do you want to flirt and attract a man who only appreciates you sexually? Or do you want to have a genuine relationship with a sincere man who appreciates and recognizes the valuable person that you are on the inside? Work on your inner beauty and it will shine on the outside also
  • LAMB56 answered a question on Sep 22, 2015
    Tell me some awesome ideas for my first wedding night.
    You wedding night is no doubt something you have both been looking forward to for a long time. With all the excitement of planning your wedding day and where to go for your honeymoon, by the time you eventually arrive in your bedroom you may both feel a little tired. So take time to unwind and relax together. Enjoy a quiet warm drink and take a shower or bath. When you are ready to go to bed just let your love for your spouse express itself naturally as you celebrate being together at last. Don’t feel you have to put on some kind of “show” or do something extraordinarily awesome…. You are the one your spouse chose to marry and the fact that you love each other is enough.
  • LAMB56 answered a question on Sep 22, 2015
    What are the signs of emotional infidelity?
    Emotional infidelity begins with becoming “just friends” with someone of the opposite sex who is not your spouse. Treating this person as a confidante and sharing intimate issues with them creates a very strong emotional bond which should be reserved for the spouse. Comparing someone else to the spouse is also a sign of emotional infidelity, as well as withdrawing from normal activities with family and friends and becoming secretive about seeing the other person, exchanging gifts and fantasizing about the other person. Unless emotional infidelity is dealt with in time it most often leads to full blown sexual infidelity.
  • LAMB56 answered a question on Sep 22, 2015
    Should singles above 40's indulge in mature dating?
    There is no rule about what age you should or shouldn’t date. This is a very personal matter and depends on the circumstances of the individual. People who have reached the age of forty or more have hopefully by now learnt from some of their mistakes and would be more vigilant and aware of potential pitfalls in relationships. They should give careful thought to their relationships so far and try not to make the same mistakes again. Mature Dating is good if it is indeed “mature” in the sense that you are honest about yourself and your goals and no longer feel the need to “play games” with others for your own selfish reasons.