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  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Mar 30, 2018
    My brother's girlfriend is in love with me
    It is a difficult situation to handle. ofcourse, you should tell your brother everything. Afterall its about his entire life. He must be dreaming for her and making plans for his honeymoon and vacations. you should tell everybody in your family in a tone that doesn't looks odd. Make sure nobody thinks that you are against that girl. Things will be resolved!
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Mar 30, 2018
    14 years & 3 kids
    161 Views
    This is really a depressing situation. you must ask her the reasons why she wants to leave her family with 3 kids. How will they live without her. Question her for the things form which she is emotionally attached. tell her atleast you deserve to knoww the reson for her leave and sort things out accordingly.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Mar 30, 2018
    Should I be concerned?
    119 Views
    I think it is a matter of concern. Becasue you two are married and you should be discussing each and everyting together. There is nothing personal into knowing each others bank account statements. discuss it with your husband and tell him that you want to know about everyting you do and decision you make. It is your right. Discuss everything openly maybe things get better.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Mar 30, 2018
    Never was in Love
    89 Views
    I know it seems difficult to stay when you have make up your mind to leave. But, it is about marriage and growing old together. you need to make things good if possible. it is not always the same. There are ups and downs in every marriage, but, it doesn't means running from it is a solution. work things out, discuss it with your husband honestly and maybe you people have a solution right in front of you. you can also spend some quality time together. Time heals everything you know!
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Mar 30, 2018
    Sexual Allergic Reaction
    According to me, you should consult a doctor or a sex therapist. They can tell you the exact situation and problem you and your girlfriend are facing.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Mar 23, 2018
    im feeling depressed ....my marriage is dead.we have nothing in common...we dont talk much ....what can i do ...
    466 Views
    Don't get so much depressed. It is just a phase of life. Just make sure you spen some quality time together, go on date, to visit some place to refreshen up your meories that you have spent together in your past. I think it will work. after all you have spent so much time together!
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Mar 23, 2018
    My gf’s really depressed. I don’t know what to do.
    Yes, you can do that, but make sure you know her proper address and she is available when you reach at her place. You are a good expample of a successful relationship. helping each other in good or bad times is the real meaning of relationship. Proud of you!
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Mar 23, 2018
    This one is for the men....how often do you choose porn or strangers'
    86 Views
    I think you both need to spent some quality time with each other. Alone you cannot do anyting when it comes to handle a relationship like marriage. You must ask your husband about whatever he is doing and why he is not taking interest in you after all you are his wife. Giving time to relationships is the best way to heal and refine them. Try out!
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Mar 23, 2018
    Is autism hereditary? Scared for future kids
    I think regarding this you should talk to the doctor or a therapist. We can only give you facts or suggestions but not the exact information that you might require.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Mar 23, 2018
    How to reassure parents that my gf is not a gold digger?
    I think you must tell your parents and GF to spent some time together. They should talk to each other in order to know the person well. everything will go right if she really loves you. Though you on you own created this image of her in your parents' eyes, it is difficult to re-establish it, but not impossible.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Mar 23, 2018
    Proposing to my foreign girlfriend. Need suggestions!
    I think it is a good idea. You always need to add spice to your relationship to make it long lasting and interesting. If you are all well-prepared I would say g ahead and fulfil your dreams.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Mar 16, 2018
    I want to have kids but she's not ready yet
    92 Views
    I think having kids is really great! but it should be a mutual decision. you alone cannot grow up your kids and need help to raise them into a better person. ask her about the reason why she do not wants. maybe she is going through some problem or simply she just want to enjoy her life with you. Because having children is a huge responsibility. You don't get time for yourself, sometimes working moms have to sacrifice their careers. one thing that you can do is ask her how much time more she wats and decide a deadline. This way, things will sort out hopefully!
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Mar 16, 2018
    How can I save my marriage?
    199 Views
    The answer for you question is to stay calm and be patient. when you think he is in an upset mood. do not start any conversation that makes him mad and avoid topics that lead to fight. take him to a surprise dinner or spend quality time with him whenever possible at hme or outside, whicever suits you. Take responsibilities through which he feels that you do care. This way, you will be able to resist his behavior and change it to a great extent.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Mar 16, 2018
    Wife wants a church wedding but I don't
    80 Views
    According to me religious topics can lead to debates. Marriage is a one time event. If you are not into religion thing, it's ok. There are alternative options, agree to what she is saying and throw a reception on the place of your choice. I think this way you both will keep your promises and won't fight. Hope it works for you!
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Mar 16, 2018
    I'm in love with two men. one wants to buy me a house and other one can't. Who do I choose?
    88 Views
    Love is not all about buying things and pampering you all the time. Though it matters up to a certain extent but not all the time. find out who has the true feelings for you and who can keep you happy and fufil all your dreams. Choose the one who loves you unconditionally.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Mar 16, 2018
    My wife wants to separate, I don't, I miss her and love her. Should I give her space?
    77 Views
    I think if you have feelings for her, try to save your relationship. ask her about the problems or issues she is facing. resolve it out and be a happy family. I know it is hard to do, but you can give it a try and let's hope for the best.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Mar 09, 2018
    Wife says I'm ignorant
    137 Views
    That's true. But it's important for you to know the currency of the country in which you live in. Not because your wife will get angry but for your own well-being. however, in your case it wasn't a big issue but maybe your wife was concerned about your well-being and nothing else. discuss with her and clear your doubts.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Mar 09, 2018
    How to help my broken hearted brother
    Even I think it is a good option. Wen he will explore new place and meet new people, he might get refresh and enjot life more. Iis a good idea, you must proceed!
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Mar 09, 2018
    Mean husband
    105 Views
    The solution for everything is not leaving. I understand your situation but you need to handle things rather than escaping the situations like this. You must talk to your husband about the same and segregate the distribution of money so that nobody burdens with the home expenses.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Mar 09, 2018
    Withholding info?
    92 Views
    No, I don't think you are keeping things from your wife. She is your daughter too, you can also take decisions for her. That's absolutely fine according to me. if you feel that you have done wronhg by not telling her due to shortage of time, you can tell her now.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Mar 09, 2018
    Fiancee's mom wants to move in
    All you can do is discuss with your partner and tell about your feelings. if she loves you, I am sure she will understand. before you discuss all these things, make sure to convey this in a way that she doesn't gets hurt. Calculate both the aspects and then take a decision. Maybe she is planning to move her mom in with you guys just because she lives alone. Infact, parents understand that newly married couples need time, but who knows she makes both of your life more comfortable and fun!
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Feb 23, 2018
    Met a woman with same sexual desire as mine. What to do?
    142 Views
    First of all you need to be clear that whether you sex desires are more that the love for your wife? all you need to do is discuss everything with your wife on a serious notee and tell her about that girl who is ready to have sex with you. If she is really concern about you and your feelings, she will never allow you to do the same, instead she will try to satisfy you on her own.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Feb 23, 2018
    Bought tickets but my gf doesn’t want to go
    Its ok, don't panic. Your question has a simple solution. Relationships doesn't mean that you are bound to someone so much that you can't even decide simple things without her. If you love metal so much, I think you should never miss it, instead enjoy it to the fullest. iff she doens't want to come with you, ask your any other friend for the same who is interested. As simple as that!
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Feb 23, 2018
    To eat or not to eat?
    72 Views
    I don't think that it is a serious issue. It is allright if he tastes the meal before you're done cooking. Afterall you have done all the hard-work only for him. Most importantly, do not compare your relation with your mother in law. There is a huge difference. Maybe he is not that frank with his mother as he feels with you. According to me, you should ignore all these small fights and learn to live happily.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Feb 23, 2018
    my gf cheated on me
    It is very difficult to handle such situations, but if you really love her, want to be with her and you think she is really guilty of whatever she diid to you, you should give her a second chance. However, you need to be strong enough to forget all this. Forgiveness is the key to evey successful relationship. So, I think you must give her a second chance.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Feb 23, 2018
    My fiancé said she don't fantasize about me when I ask I fantasizes about her all the time is this a bad thing?
    110 Views
    Hey, I understand your point. Everyone has desires and emotions when the person is in relationship. but as your relationship has just started, you must give your partner little time. spend sometime quality time together to know each other rather than doing things in a hurry. When you feel that now you are close enogh to share your feelings with her, go ahead!
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Feb 16, 2018
    We divorced. 1 month and 1/2 later we are working it out. Is it really none of my business what she did?
    501 Views
    I know it is very hard to accept the person again in your life who once betrayed. But, relationships can be imporved. If you think that she is guilt of whatever she has done to you and you really want to bring her back in your life, don't think much and accept her. But then make sure she doesn't hurts you again. Resolve things out, before you go again in that relationship which once broke your heart.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Feb 16, 2018
    Do I stick things out with my husband?
    93 Views
    I think marriage is a pure relationship and needs time to get even more better with time. Leaving is not the solution, you need to make things better together. If he isn't trying, you need to make him understand anyhow, afterall he is your soulmate. Its not that I am forcing you to stay with him, but I don't want you to take any decision that you regret in future. Spend quality time with your husband, plan surprises for him, do things that makes him feel happy and hope for the best results. Maybe he stops doubting you...
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Feb 16, 2018
    At what point do you think your lifestyle should start settling down?
    85 Views
    There are different ways in which you can stop people from drinking. However, only a knowledgable person can answer you regarding this. As far as the kids concern, There are people who changes after having a family, but what if they doesn't. It's better for you to take a back seat when it comes to having kids an focus more on reducing his drinking habits. Visit a doctor or concerned perosn and ask about how you can stop your husband from excessive drinking so that he realizes that he need to be responsible to have a happy family.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Feb 16, 2018
    I don't know how to deal with this complicated relationship
    86 Views
    According to me, you should not take stress. If you really love her and want to date her, all you can do is ask her the very last time with all the seriousness. This way, you can clear your confusion and move on with your life. there is nothing to be scared. You cannot bound any person to be in a relationship with you. If you think that it hurts you if she takes interest in any other guy, I would suggest you to stay away, coz everyone has his/her own life. Maybe she doesn't see you that way. So, it's better to move on!!
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Feb 16, 2018
    Sex with a widow
    829 Views
    I understand your situation. You want her to be happy with you more than as she was with her husband. But, you can't deny the fact, that she has gone through such a painful tragedy of losing her loving husband. I suggest you not to maker her feel that she needs to forget her husband but simply try to make her happy. as far as the erection problem is concerned, you need to visit a sex therapist who can guide you better.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Feb 04, 2018
    Moving to my fiance's country after marriage.. is it worth it?
    80 Views
    Hey, I would like to say that you're thinking of too far. You must enjoy your courtship period, your wedding and honeymoon. Although i totally understand that man is the responsible person of the family and has to plan the future, but it doesn't mean that you ruin your present while planning the future. Also, I would like to suggest that you should ask your fiance about the same. Because marriage is something that needs mutual understanding, whether it is about taking a decision or planning a holiday. So, you must ask your fiance and then decide accordingly.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Feb 04, 2018
    not staying hard
    110 Views
    Whatever you're saying my friend is a very insecure way! You always need to use a protection. It is obviously difficult to control yourself when you're on your high-time, so make sure you use protection and do it in a safer and tension-free way.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Feb 04, 2018
    Special occasions
    77 Views
    I think you need to be positive. Maybe he is in trouble or going through some serious stuff officially. I understand that it is extremely important for a person to maintain a work-life balance, but at times, people just can't handle it. you should ask him what he is going through. Also, tell him that you want to spend some quality time with him and mutually fix a date to celebrate your anniversary. Marriage is something that is based entirely on understanding, love and truthfullness. You will get many more anniversaries to celebrate but arguement can make your marriage worse. Try to help hm and sort out things happily and clamly.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Feb 04, 2018
    Should I put my sister in her place?
    92 Views
    I think you need to talk to your husband and sister individually and clarify all the doubts. Tell your husband about your sister that it is her true nature. She has been the same her whole life. At the same time, tell your sister frankly about what is going on in your life due to her and not to compare each other's life. Every couple has a different story, challenges in life which they have to take care according to the situations. It doesn't mean, you will start comparing your life with others. Although if you and your husband have a good understanding, you need to fix this instead of fighting. Do not allow any third person to interfere in your personal lives whether it is your family or friends.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Jan 31, 2018
    How do I get my sex drive back?
    130 Views
    First of all you need o discuss this with your husband. If you have tried doing everything but still things haven't improved, you need to consult a sex therapist. Because as you said you both are attracted to each other, it seems there are no problems in your marriage due to which you have lost your sex drive. The best way to get it back is to consult a therapist.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Jan 31, 2018
    Why are my buddies teasing me for not cheating on my wife?
    72 Views
    This is insane!! If somebody teases you for not cheating your wife, you must ignore them completely. You shouldn't get affceted by their talks. It is good that you are loyal towards your wife and happy with her. It is an indication that you are in a pure relationship and extremely loyal towards your wife. You should feel proud for the same.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Jan 31, 2018
    Hi, I got engaged to a boy who still talks to his girlfriend
    108 Views
    I know that is hurting. Before stopping that girl you need to discuss it with your partner that why is he still talking to her. Ask him clearly what does he wants. Tell him that you don't like the that he still speaks to her girlfriend. Maybe he understands that you love him and see a future with him. Try nt to be aggressive and resolve everything in a decent manner.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Jan 29, 2018
    Lost in a futureless marriage.
    116 Views
    I think you should be patient and put yourself in her situation to know what she is exactly going through. Maybe she is busy, stressed or tensed due to some reason. It is possible that she is unable to maintain a proper work-life balance. There maybe several reasons, but do not assume that she doesn't loves you. It seems you still love and respect her. So, for that love, bring a spark in her life, ask her to go with you on a dinner date or something. If you have tried all these things and still unhappy with the results, you should consider consulting a sex therapist.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Jan 16, 2018
    Going to doctors with wife
    78 Views
    This is a good thing that your wife is so concerned about your problems and take it so seriously. Maybe there are some kind of fears inside you regarding the visitation to the doctor. That's why she wants to accompany you and tell the doctor whatever you miss out. Don't feel negative, she is doing all this for your well-being!!
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Jan 16, 2018
    Should I leave or stay?
    72 Views
    I suggest that you should stay. You know marriage is something that needs to be handled with care in the beginning especially when it is an arrange marriage. If everything goes well, life is fun! Maybe today you feel that your parents have taken a wrong decision, but, always remember, they are your well-wishers. I would say, you must give your marriage a second chance. In arrange marriages, people take time to open up. Try to know him better by spending some quality time with him. But before you do all this, you need to move ahead of your past relationships so that you can widen your thoughts. I am pretty sure that things will work out in a good way!!
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Jan 16, 2018
    I found that my husband has searched his ex girlfriend 27 times over 3 yrs. I don’t know what to do.
    79 Views
    I know its disheartening, but it is not neccessary that your husband is interested in his ex-girlfriend. There are many people who check their ex's accounts on social media platforms just because of curiousity. If you still have doubts, all you can do is ask him about the same and clear things out. When you will tell him that you don't like him searching his ex's, maybe he'll stop doing that.
  • Katherine-P_ answered a question on Jan 16, 2018
    I'm in a sexless marriage and I don't know what to do anymore...
    294 Views
    I can understand your situation! But don't feel so negative about it. There are always solutions for every problem. Try to know the reasons behind your sexless marriage. Maybe your wife is stressed or undergoing through tough situations. You can take her out for dinner on weekends and spend quality time with her so that you get to know what is exactly going on in her mind. Believe it or not, these things have a direct impact on your physical intimacy. So, try all these things and maybe your marriage turns out to be a happy one!!
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