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Juanjose

  • Juanjose asked
    Dinner with a friend
    My wife and I have been having problems for some time now, our marriage has been on the rocks for a couple of years. She has expressed her unhappiness, her lack of motivation, and her desire to have someone with whom she could talk to and feel passionate about. She doesn't feel that with me anymore. She has a good famale friend, her only friend and confidant with whom she seldom goes out with. Well, this past weekend I went to visit my mom out of town and when I came back, I checked the house security cameras and I noticed that my wife left the house on Saturday at around 2pm and return at 1 am. I didn't say anything at first but I just couldn't take it anymore so I asked where she went. She said that she and her friend went out to dinner. I asked her that it seemed kind of late to return home from dinner (note, she never visits the friend house, so, I know they weren't there). At this point she got defensive and said that she didn't want to argue and that she they went to dinner and stayed late talking and that was it. I told her that I found it strange that they never go out when I am around and only do it when I am gone and she (my wife) comes late from this supposedly dinners. I must add that she had a male "friend" with whom she talked and texted. What do you guys think about this?
  • Juanjose asked
    Out to dinner with best friend?
    My marriage has been on the rocks for some time now. My wife has expressed her need for someone to feel romantically and emocionally attracted to, something she doesn't feel for me anymore. This past weekend I went out of town to visit my mom. When I came back, I checked the security cameras and I discovered that on Saturday my wife had left the house at 2pm and returned at 1am, Sunday morning. At first I did not want to say anything but I could not hold it any longer so I asked her. She said that she had gone out to dinner with her female friend, a friend that she has known for a long time but who she rarely hangs out with. At first she seemed surprise that I ask or that I knew of her outing. I told her that it was strange that she was out so late and she got defensive. She told me that she did not want to argue and that basically it was up to me to believe her or not. She did this same thing some time ago. I told her that it was strange that she only went out with this friend (and return so late) when I was out of town. I asked her why it was that when I was around, they never went out to dinner? She said that she didn't know... I don't belive that she went with her friend.....what do you guys think?
  • Juanjose asked
    dinner with a friend
    My marriage has been on the rocks for some time now. My wife has expressed her need for someone to feel romantically and emocionally attracted to, something she doesn't feel for me anymore. This past weekend I went out of town to visit my mom. When I came back, I checked the security cameras and I discovered that on Saturday my wife had left the house at 2pm and returned at 1am, Sunday morning. At first I did not want to say anything but I could not hold it any longer so I asked her. She said that she had gone out to dinner with her female friend, a friend that she has known for a long time but who she rarely hangs out with. At first she seemed surprise that I ask or that I knew of her outing. I told her that it was strange that she was out so late and she got defensive. She told me that she did not want to argue and that basically it was up to me to believe her or not. She did this same thing some time ago. I told her that it was strange that she only went out with this friend (and return so late) when I was out of town. I asked her why it was that when I was around, they never went out to dinner? She said that she didn't know... I don't belive that she went with her friend.....what do you guys think?
  • Juanjose asked
    dinner with a friend...
    My marriage has been on the rocks for some time now. My wife has expressed her need for someone to feel romantically and emocionally attracted to, something she doesn't feel for me anymore. This past weekend I went out of town to visit my mom. When I came back, I checked the security cameras and I discovered that on Saturday my wife had left the house at 2pm and returned at 1am, Sunday morning. At first I did not want to say anything but I could not hold it any longer so I asked her. She said that she had gone out to dinner with her female friend, a friend that she has known for a long time but who she rarely hangs out with. At first she seemed surprise that I ask or that I knew of her outing. I told her that it was strange that she was out so late and she got defensive. She told me that she did not want to argue and that basically it was up to me to believe her or not. She did this same thing some time ago. I told her that it was strange that she only went out with this friend (and return so late) when I was out of town. I asked her why it was that when I was around, they never went out to dinner? She said that she didn't know... I don't belive that she went with her friend.....what do you guys think?
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