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  • FRANK7 answered a question on Sep 22, 2015
    How to regain trust in a marriage?
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    Once trust is betrayed it usually takes a very long time for a person to trust again, especially in the area where it was broken. In some cases the betrayal may be so devastating that the person will never come back to the same level of trust again. When our trust is betrayed we must come to the point of forgiving the person, but forgiveness does not automatically mean that we will trust them again. Trust must be earned and proved over time. It is foolish to trust someone who has proven themselves untrustworthy. If they are truly sorry for what they have done and they want to change, then they should be given the help that they need, through counseling and support groups, until they can prove and demonstrate that they have become trustworthy over a long period of time.
  • FRANK7 answered a question on Sep 22, 2015
    What is infidelity? Is this most common reason for marriage failure?
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    Another word for infidelity is unfaithfulness and it means that a married person has been unfaithful to their spouse by having a relationship with someone else. Infidelity can happen both sexually and emotionally – in other words it is possible to be emotionally unfaithful to your spouse without actually having intercourse with someone else. This is definitely a very common reason for marriage failure; if not sexual infidelity, certainly emotional infidelity as someone or something else becomes more important than the marriage relationship. Instead of loving and cherishing each other as husband and wife, they allow other things or people to crowd out the love in their marriage.
  • FRANK7 answered a question on Sep 22, 2015
    I do not want to be in a relationship now. Tell me how can I end it?
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    Ending a relationship can be very difficult and painful especially if you have been in it for some length of time. The way you go about ending it would depend on the nature of your relationship and the character and personality of the one you will be leaving. By now you would know them quite well so you would have some idea how they might take the news of your break up. If they are a controlling and unstable person who is co-dependent on you, you will need to be prepared for some backlash and possible threats and recriminations. Prepare yourself carefully and then tell the person very clearly and honestly that the relationship is over. It is less painful for all concerned if you sever ties completely and move on.
  • FRANK7 answered a question on Sep 22, 2015
    Why trust is so important in a relationship?
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    Trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship. It is the assured reliance on the character, ability, strength or truth of someone or something. In building trust, words and behavior must come from character. It is character that builds trust, and not merely what one says or does. A person of character who can be trusted is someone who is honest and humble, transparent about their own faults and weaknesses and quick to say sorry. Those who lack character but try to get others to trust them are sooner or later discovered for who they are. Trust is slowly built and quickly broken. It is a precious treasure which must be carefully guarded.
  • FRANK7 answered a question on Sep 22, 2015
    Why trust is so important in a relationship?
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    Trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship. It is the assured reliance on the character, ability, strength or truth of someone or something. In building trust, words and behavior must come from character. It is character that builds trust, and not merely what one says or does. A person of character who can be trusted is someone who is honest and humble, transparent about their own faults and weaknesses and quick to say sorry. Those who lack character but try to getothers to trust them are sooner or later discovered for who they are. Trust is slowly built and quickly broken. It is a precious treasure which must be carefully guarded.
  • FRANK7 answered a question on Sep 22, 2015
    How to look for new places for a romantic getaway?
    Places which are available for a romantic getaway would depend on where you are living and how far you would be prepared to travel. You can always do research online to discover attractive destinations, or visit your nearest travel agent. Decide whether you want to be in the countryside, in the mountains, or at the seaside. Or would you prefer somewhere with the bright city lights and fun places to go and things to do? Perhaps you would like a quiet walk in the forest with your beloved, or an exciting roller coaster ride before you return to your hotel room for a romantic candle lit dinner?
  • FRANK7 answered a question on Sep 22, 2015
    Are women looking for men to flirt with?
    Perhaps some (or many) women are looking for men to flirt with, and perhaps they think that this is all they are worth. However, deep down inside, every woman is looking for a man who will treat her with respect and dignity, gentleness and affection. Unfortunately the sexual aspect of attraction is often so much in the spotlight, that the deeper aspects of character and integrity go unnoticed by many. Those who do not wish to settle for the superficial can seek and find a better way – a way of relating in a mature and fulfilling way, rather than flirting.
  • FRANK7 answered a question on Sep 22, 2015
    What is adultery? Why it is considered to be so wrong?
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    Adultery is defined as voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and someone who is not their spouse. It is considered to be so wrong because it is the ultimate betrayal of a covenant or promise that two people make to each other when they get married. They promise to love each other and to be faithful to each other, giving themselves in the intimacy of a sexual relationship to only their spouse. When this promise is broken it has serious implications, not only physically and emotionally, but also spiritually, as every sexual relationship is also a spiritual relationship.
  • FRANK7 answered a question on Sep 22, 2015
    What are the warning signs of troubled marriage?
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    The warning signs of a troubled marriage can be many and varied, depending on the circumstances and the personalities of the individuals. Generally, if a couple no longer spends as much time together as they used to, and they appear to be drifting apart and living separate lives to a large extent, this can mean trouble. If they make sarcastic or bitter comments about their spouse, whether or not the spouse is present, this is not a good sign. If a couple finds that they have very little eye contact and do not have much to talk about when they are alone together, then they are probably in trouble.
  • FRANK7 answered a question on Sep 22, 2015
    How relationship therapy sessions can help couples on the rock?
    Relationship therapy sessions can be a great help to couples who are struggling and find that their marriage is on the rocks. Often there is so much tension at home that it is difficult to have a conversation or discussion about important issues without ending up in a fight. But when you are with the therapist it is a safe and controlled environment where sensitive and hurtful issues can be brought out onto the table and looked at carefully with the help of the therapist. In this way you can learn new and effective ways of talking with each other and eventually you will be able to relate better when you are alone at home together.
  • FRANK7 answered a question on Sep 22, 2015
    How to build trust in a marriage?
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    Building trust in a marriage can take a long time, especially if trust has been broken. The way to build trust is to be consistently faithful and trustworthy over a long period of time. If your spouse asks you questions, do not take it personally and accuse him or her of “not trusting” you…. Realize that this is an important part of the process of building trust. Be very patient and gentle, and answer all questions truthfully without becoming irritable and angry. Try to affirm and reassure your spouse of your love, both with words and actions, in small ways every day
  • FRANK7 answered a question on Sep 22, 2015
    Why do men, in most cases, have affairs outisde marriage?
    Some men seem to crave sexual excitement and one woman is not enough for them. Even when his wife is loving and faithful, it is as if he has a gaping hole of sexual need which is never filled. A man such as this needs a lot of help and intervention from a professional counselor and a support team which can walk with him through the changes he will need to make in order to find true love. But this is only possible if he himself is willing to acknowledge that he needs help, and is willing to radically change his attitudes and lifestyle.
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