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  • Christoph345 answered a question on Sep 09, 2015
    Recently I flirted with a woman but now I am feeling guilty about it. How to cope with this feeling?
    I'm guessing you're guilty because you are either attached to someone or full-fledged married. It's good that you're feeling guilty, because that's an important self-realisation that you might have taken things a little too far. I only believe that there are 2 types of flirting - there is the friendly kind where you do it to boost another person's self-esteem or maybe even yours (because you want to know that you are still attractive). Friendly flirting has boundaries and knows when to stop. Then there is the kind of flirting where you have the intention to take things further with another woman. If this is the case, I urge you to consider your relationship status before you indulge yourself further. In this case, you might want to consider being single to engage in serial flirting habits.
  • Christoph345 answered a question on Sep 09, 2015
    How is life after divorce for men?
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    In my personal opinion, life will be what he makes of it. If he has planned well what he would like to do with his life after the divorce - be it to continue to focus on other aspects of his life or embrace new changes - then it'll be so. I don't think that there should be concern about how a divorced man lives unless he is mentally unstable or in a precarious financial or social situation. On a good note he might have less nagging to deal with.
  • Christoph345 answered a question on Sep 09, 2015
    What is a life after divorce for a women?
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    In my personal opinion, life will be what she makes of it. If she has planned well what she would like to do with her life after the divorce - be it to continue to focus on other aspects of her life or embrace new changes - then it'll be so. I don't think that there should be concern about how a divorced woman lives unless she is mentally unstable or in a precarious financial or social situation. On a good note she might have less cleaning up after to do, and more time to indulge in 'me' time.
  • Christoph345 answered a question on Sep 09, 2015
    Does indulging in dating after divorce correct?
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    Nothing correct or wrong about it, as long as you make sure you have emotionally recovered and moved on from the divorce before plunging into the dating world again. Don't get into a situation where you date is a rebound, and don't commit too fast either or you'll end up with another divorce...
  • Christoph345 answered a question on Sep 09, 2015
    Is dating a married man ethically correct?
    I agree with the others, it is not ethical at all if you are helping a married man cheat on his spouse. There is a loss of integrity, honesty and care when someone does this. Some migthen ht say there is nothing wrong in an open marriage where the wife has given her consent to the husband to date other women. Then I ask, why get married at all?
  • Christoph345 answered a question on Sep 09, 2015
    I am not happy with my married life. I want a divorce what shoud I do next?
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    Perhaps you are saying this out of anger and spite. Take time to cool down first to discuss any make a rational decision before jumping into any big changes. Seek the opinions of others to get an objective look at the situation. From there, decide on the next best course of action based on what you have gathered. It might seem long and tedious, but it might stop us from making rash decisions that we regret, or help us be more firm in our decision for change.
  • Christoph345 answered a question on Sep 09, 2015
    How to file for a divorce?
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    You can either file a complaint for divorce or a joint petition for divorce. The former is when you are the only one who wants the divorce while the latter is for couples who have made a mutual decision. Depending on the laws in your homeland, you will have to file to a family or divorce court, and pay a fee for the divorce processing. The steps for filing divorce can be quite confusing, so many people hire divorce lawyers to assist them, and get a higher chance for divorce approval.
  • Christoph345 answered a question on Sep 09, 2015
    My friend's wedding is round the corner. Please suggest some wedding gifts for friends.
    My take on gift-giving is that giftcards or vouchers work wonders. amd help prevent unsuitable gifts. In fact, the couple will be able to choose an item that they feel is more useful to them rather than having gifts they don't need imposed on them. Just be sure to pick giftcards or vouchers from a store that has a variety of product ranges and types so they have a wider choice!
  • Christoph345 answered a question on Sep 09, 2015
    Suggest some gifts for groom from the bride on the day of engagement?
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    I believe this practice of giving gifts to grooms is more prevalent in non-Western culture. In this case, I think there are some set gifts that each party has to give depending on the rules of their culture. However on a less traditional note, there are many alternatives that a bride can gift her groom. My suggestion is to get him something that he can use for the wedding day, like a pair of good cufflinks, pocket squares or leather shoes. It will make the lead up to the wedding more exciting!
  • Christoph345 answered a question on Sep 09, 2015
    How to concieve a baby boy?
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    Although the ethics of it is being questions, technological advances have actually allowed parents to choose the genetic traits of their baby. This goes beyond the gender, and parents can choose traits such as hair colour, eye colour and even level of intelligence. Couples who choose IVF to conceive a child can decide the gender, as the egg is usually fertilised outside of the woman's reproductive system, and the best embryo (along with the demanded gender) is implanted in the uterus for further development.
  • Christoph345 answered a question on Sep 14, 2015
    What are anger management counseling techniques?
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    It's about learning how to control your emotionals to prevent an outburst from escalating to violence. Anger management is usually recommended to individuals who frequently have these outburts, and have hurt family and friends in the process. The counsellor is trained in a variety of techniques and will recommend them according to the person's personality. But if you would like do some self-controlling, try these tips from the Mayo Clinic.
  • Christoph345 answered a question on Sep 09, 2015
    What are the best engagement gift ideas for couples to surprise them?
    I think the best gifts for a couple are the ones that help them bond closer or spend some quality time in a meaningful way. Some ideas that come to mind are cooking lessons, pottery lessons are even art jamming. The activity really depends on what type of couple they are. Material items that encourage doing things together are great as well. Adult-oriented board games might be worth a try...
  • Christoph345 answered a question on Sep 08, 2015
    What is the most appropriate age to have a baby?
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    There is no set age for this, but as our fellow members have mentioned, it is more of a maturity of mindset and financial stability that determines the right time for having a child. Some factors to consider include that fact that it can be difficult to conceive healthily at an older age, and that younger people might not have the maturity or life experience to raise a child properly.
  • Christoph345 answered a question on Sep 08, 2015
    What is the definition of romantic love?
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    Romantic love is often portrayed as the type of love that makes your heart beat fast uncontrollably and makes your knees weak. As Amy508 says, it is infatuation, except romantic love is reciprocated by the other party as well. While romantic love is the fun and exciting part, it does ebb and flow, and does not have the steadiness of true love.
  • Christoph345 answered a question on Sep 08, 2015
    What is the best relationship advice for women?
    To add on to the already great advice given by the guys above, is it important to show your partner that you care for him, and do your best to be a listening ear. Men sometimes have to put up a poker-face throughout the whole day, and often you are the only person to whom he shows his true emotions. Don't belittle him for sharing, and always show your support. He might very well do likewise!
  • Christoph345 answered a question on Sep 08, 2015
    What is mature dating? Can you give some tips?
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    If you are considered a senior and you are dating, then that's mature dating. Usually, dating is seen as a fun, competitive activity by younger people. but mature people can definitely use their dating experience to meet new and interesting people. It is important to meet with someone like-minded so as to have more things to talk about. Try to do more active stuff such as a walk by the beach or exploring new towns so as to prevent boredom during dating.
  • Christoph345 answered a question on Sep 08, 2015
    What is horoscope compatibility? How does it work?
    Horoscope compatibility is based on each person's alleged horoscope sign, and it is basically matching the set personality types of each sign with each other. Based on each sign's personality, they are scrutinised to see if they are a good match. One disadvantage of using horoscopes is that it does not consider the individual personalities of each partner and hence is not very accurate.
  • Christoph345 answered a question on Sep 08, 2015
    What are the signs and symptoms of pregnancy?
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    When my wife was pregnant, she experienced the following symptoms. Swollen and tender breasts, very bad morning sickness, very random cravings for food and also dislike for some types of food, swollen ankles, and sudden mood swings, though not very often. In addition, there was some discolouration on some parts of her skin, which doctors said was hormonal.
  • Christoph345 answered a question on Sep 08, 2015
    What are the seven vows of marriage?
    Accprding to a google search, the seven vows are part of a Hindu wedding, and are essentially vows that denote the roles, responsibilities and expectations of a Hindu husband and wife. This can be considered as the most sacred part of a highly religious wedding, and without it makes a marriage incomplete.
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