- Brokenguy4 asked I’ve met this amazing girl during my recent annual Ukraine ski trip a few years ago. We were together for about 4 years now and out of the blue, she decided to cut things off. I’m totally lost and I’m a mess. I still love her as much as the first day I laid my eyes on her but I’m heartbroken knowing she doesn’t feel the same. I honestly don’t know what I did wrong. Wasn’t I enough? I still want her back but she’s pretty serious with living separate lives now. I don’t know what to do..