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  • Bestbetty87 asked a question on Jul 17, 2014
    How do I stay with someone I don't wanna be with?
  • Bestbetty87 asked a question on Jul 17, 2014
    Advice about online dating.
  • Bestbetty87 answered a question on Jul 13, 2020
    Do we consistently reach win/win resolutions to our problems?
    I agree with every word you said. I guess the easiest resolution to a conflict is to nip it at the bud. For instance, if you feel that a conflict is about to begin, then divert your mind and start doing something else which will engage you both. But then you need to think about the problem later in solitude and try to find a solution by stepping in his or her shoes. This almost always has positive results.
  • Bestbetty87 answered a question on Jun 10, 2014
    My husband wants a divorce but I don't I really want to work things out. Now, he refuses to talk to me, what can I do?
    No point working yourself over a losing battle. You need to be strong and if your husband is not willing to talk thing out then why force it. Give yourself some time, things will get better. God bless.
  • Bestbetty87 answered a question on Jun 05, 2014
    She’s too fat!
    No matter how much you choose to support your wife, she has to desire to commit herself to a healthy lifestyle. Diabetes is probably her #1 health issue now but she is prone to suffering from a heart attack or stroke. I don’t think you can inspire someone who doesn’t find the inspiration in themselves. I learned the hard way in life and suffered two strokes within a month before committing my life to exercising and changing my eating habits. My wife supported me through it all but not until I made some personal decisions.
  • Bestbetty87 answered a question on Jun 03, 2014
    Emotionally Abandoned
    We as men are emotionally not affectionate species. You have to tell us what you want and need.