- Humble2019 asked Me and my husband have been together 7 years, married for 3 years. During our time dating, I found out that he was seeking escorts for sexual relations. After some time, I forgave him, but never forgot. Recently, I found out that he was looking for escorts again. I've gone through so much through our dating and marriage and this latest incident has me at the end of my rope. I can no longer deal with it nor do I want to. I've been unhappy for a while and now this has sealed the deal. I just wanted to know, am I overreacting? P.S. I've tried counseling, he said he doesn't need it, he's happy, I'm the one that has a problem with him. I've sat him down several times to discuss my feelings. He may do right for a little while but then it always goes back to the nonsense. Thank you for the positive feedback!