- Cookie10 asked My husband and I are working on our marriage again after a year of separation.During that time he formed a close friendship with a woman that ended up turning into something more. They traveled together and considered dating. Now that we are trying again, I think he should cut ties with her but he's not ready to give up this person he feels was there for him during a hard time. I want to respect his friendship but the fact that it blossomed into something more, makes me feel uncomfortable. I believe if he really wants this marriage to work, there can't be a third party involved. Am I out of line?