Feeling depressed over break-up. Help me.
I’m at the point of my life now where I don’t feel like living anymore.
I feel like I’m a lost cause after my girlfriend decided to call it off.
It’s been months since things ended between us but I’m still not over her.
Not by a long shot.
Each day I just feel worse.
I don’t think I will be able to recover from the grief.
I just feel so depressed and lost.
I still remember meeting her for the first time in that foreign dating event.
She got my attention the moment we started talking.
Since then, I’ve imagined a future with her.
I thought that that was it.
I already found the one.
Turns out I was wrong.
How do I move on? How do I forget someone whom I was already planning to share my life with? How??
Life is long. End of a relationship does not translate into the end of the world for you. You need to snap out of the pain post break up and step by step restore happiness into your life. One day at a time, one step at a time. Start seeking out your old connections, friends, spend more time with family and the best thing to do now would be to work with renewed energy and strive for a more fruitful career. Singlehood doesn't suck, as is made out by people! You can really squeeze in a lot more to do now, that you have time for yourself and just yourself. Self-love is the best form of the love :) Live by that, and sooner or later you will meet someone, but don't look at finding someone to complete you. That's old school and delusional. Revel in your own company, replenish yourself, without having to be romantically involved on a rebound.