Fiancee's mom wants to move in
I just don’t get why my fiancee want her mom to live with us after our wedding.
She and I have been staying in our apartment for about two years now.
So far, we’ve established a good routine and chemistry inside the house.
If we add in her mom to the mix, I’m afraid she might shake this balance.
It kind of pieces me off how of all time my fiancee wants her to move in, she chose after the wedding.
Isn’t that supposed to be our honeymoon period? How do I tell her that I don’t want her mom with us? At least not after our first year.
You see her family’s used to this kind of thing since they’re kind of a tight family.
Her mom’s from Cebu who met her dad in some asian date tour.
Her parents got married and lived here in Chicago since then.
Two of her mom’s siblings migrated here too and lived with them for a while.
Basically, living with extended family members is a walk in the park for her.
But it’s not for me.
I need help to survive this fiasco.
Someone save me.
All you can do is discuss with your partner and tell about your feelings. if she loves you, I am sure she will understand. before you discuss all these things, make sure to convey this in a way that she doesn't gets hurt. Calculate both the aspects and then take a decision. Maybe she is planning to move her mom in with you guys just because she lives alone. Infact, parents understand that newly married couples need time, but who knows she makes both of your life more comfortable and fun!