How can I help my wife orgasm?
We've been married for a little over two years and my wife still hasn't had an orgasm.
We have a lot of sex, and she loves it, but I still feel bad that I haven't been able to help her orgasm.
Fingers and mouth can get her really close but she feels like she has a mental block that just won't let her go all the way.
I feel so bad that she hasn't been able to.
If it's mental - love her and make sure that she knows it. A lot of what happens in the bedroom is reflective of what happens outside the bedroom. If it's physical - learn how to stimulate all her erogenous zones. Manual and oral can be really helpful. Use a good lubricant. Try different positions and make it fun and sexy. If there's some past experiences that are getting in the way, look into counseling if needed.
My wife had the same issue. What finally worked was a combination of having a drink or 2 to relax, played porn and then we got into the 69 position . While I was pleasuring her, I also started lightly playing with her anal area and eventuallly using a small vibrator while i was still using mouth and fingers on her vagina. Once this was successful a couple different times, she seems to relax easier now and not have the same mental block. She now experiences orgasm about a 3rd of the time. Hope that helps